The Tribulation is for the Jews. I know Christians love to think it's all about us, but the prophet Daniel told us that God has set a time of 490 years for Israel to have her sin dealt with. 483 of those years have elapsed, leaving seven to go. Daniel and Revelation tell us of the events that take place during this final seven years, what we call the Tribulation, and none of them have anything to do with the Church. God has always promised that Israel would turn to him and be restored, amidst great danger and persecution, and that is essentially what the Tribulation is. When the seven years are complete, and the necessary events have taken place, Jesus Christ returns for his brethren, Israel.
The above verses are referring to the second coming of Jesus Christ, and not the Rapture.
Again, these are Second Advent verses. Jesus is coming to conquer and to judge. The Rapture is not for either of those things, but only to remove the Church in preparation for dealing with Israel.
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I don't see Jesus with a stopwatch, timing it down to the last microsecond so the Church has to endure most of the Tribulation, but not the "wrath" part of it. As I said, it's about Israel, not the Church, and I think people focus on the wrong thing here.
If the wrath is happening Friday, and God removes you today, you are still delivered from "the wrath to come", even if you aren't taken out at the last minute. I believe it is the same with Christians and their deliverance from God's wrath.
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It will be an incredible time, but the Church will have no part in it. God will seal 144,000 Jewish witnesses for global evangelism, send the two witnesses to preach to the world from Jerusalem, and there will be an angel flying through the sky preaching the everlasting gospel. We would just get in the way.