sadtruth
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- Apr 23, 2018
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Yeah...it's nice to talk to others in the same boat. I feel like I sound silly too sometimes but talking to people who understand helps. It's really helped me see kpop in a different way and not be so attached to them. Rather than being in that crazy fandom it's good to speak to people who can see how toxic it is eventhough we kinda like it? Lol...I didn't realise how the fans were making the addiction worse until I came back to this site. I hope we can help each other like it less.Don't be so hard on yourself... even if not EVERY SINGLE POST of us has info, it's okay, this thread is mostly for speculations, opinions etc. By being funny it's easier to relate to each other, to create a nice atmosphere
Maybe here we are creating this way a friendly environment? Where everyone can say what they feel and all, even if it's not every time about complex information and so on
Most of us are here to get rid of this addiction, if everything is so formal and all info, maybe it doesn't help that much... at some point, we all know something is wrong over there, even if we don't have all the details. So the most important is just to get rid of this addiction for good... I think it's more about the sense of belonging to a community rather than only finding information. After all, we can still find books and stuff by ourselves online (but it's harder alone), but the personal relationships are more important... it's so hard to find someone that can see over the mere appearance and knows/understands about the things we are discussing here
Thanks guys...it feels like free therapy lol