I am sorry, but Islam is possibly the MOST organized of religions. In fact, it is more of an ideology, than a religion.
If you cannot see how Islam dictates so many facets of your life, then you are indeed indoctrinated up to your eyeballs-and I am sorry for you.
A relationship with God cannot be ordered and dictated-by any religion, ideology, philosophy, creed or fairy tale. Anything of the material world will not allow us to enter into the holy place in order to approach God.
(John 4:24)
God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.