Would you date a broke man?

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morita

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Would you date a man who isn't financially well off or earns less than you do?
 






Bent8484

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Lol...are you a broke man looking for a date?

Different people have different priorities. Some care about money, and some don't. Just find someone who cares about the same things as you, and you'll do just fine.
 






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If he's asking the question, maybe it's him who's a bit too concerned with money.
He’s a she and she hates men..so I’m not sure why she even cares about the question she’s asked.
 






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How old are you?? Unless you're still in high school and don't have a rent to pay, you won't survive without money.
I care enough to pay the bills, no more. I'm 38. I've been poor and I've been wealthy and then poor again, and now I'm somewhere in between. I lack for nothing, I work when I'm inspired to, and my girlfriend is wealthier than me and it doesn't cause tension.
 






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I care enough to pay the bills, no more. I'm 38. I've been poor and I've been wealthy and then poor again, and now I'm somewhere in between. I lack for nothing, I work when I'm inspired to, and my girlfriend is wealthier than me and it doesn't cause tension.
Of course you don't care about money if your girlfriend takes care of everything financially.
 






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So now women have become the providers for men who "only work when inspired"...nice.
Lol! The real reason for the thread...do feminists care if they have to provide..isn’t that what feminism is about.
 






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Of course you don't care about money if your girlfriend takes care of everything financially.
We split all costs half half. The trick is to keep your costs low. The relative value of our savings has no effect on our daily lives. We both value experiences more than material goods, and we live a pretty modest lifestyle. You don't stay rich by spending money...
 






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So now women have become the providers for men who "only work when inspired"...nice.
If you want a rich husband, don't date a writer. And I never said anything about being taken care of.
 






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No. It shows a lack of work ethic and resourcefulness. A man with no money is almost always a “victim” and a wimp. If you’re not finically secure, it’s because you’re not mature enough to “live within your means”.
If you only spend what you have, you can't be in debt. A guy who gets suckered by the credit game is probably not the sharpest.
 






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But it's patriarchy if it's the reverse. Good gawd, you are one hell of a hypocrite.
Modern feminism is supposed to advocate for the dissolution of class division, as an obstacle to equal opportunity, so it might not be hypocrisy... maybe she just needs to hit the books.
 






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