I thought it was the High Horse.@morita
I forgot, you always take the "high road"
I thought it was the High Horse.@morita
I forgot, you always take the "high road"
If someone is broke because they have debts and don't live within their means they're probably irresponsible too.Finally, who cares who makes more money? It doesn't really matter.
So long as someone is working, and paying the bills.
I've seen different setups and seemingly odd couples, if it works for them, it works for them.
Some women are better outside the house, income earners, and some guys are better suited at more domesticated tasks.
Your views are very antiquated. Lol!!!
So money matters all of the sudden LOL. Predictable.And if both of those people can't manage their money, then they are definitely in for some hard times!!
WaitIf you want a rich husband, don't date a writer.
Well, she's a woman, and she has issues, so...That’s what you call it?
Hard work. In short bursts, and at prices I set, because I'm no sucker for wage slavery.Wait
How did you become rich then if not by your amazing writing?..
morita: your problem is that you do not understand that a man who has money does not necessarily mean they are great providers. although you are asking about men who are mature and financially stable, you come off as a gold digger on a thread like this.Y'know, multiple people here, of various genders, have given you anecdotal evidence of successful relationships that are based on cooperation and teamwork regardless of income or wealth difference, and you keep arguing against it.
morita: your problem is that you do not understand that a man who has money does not necessarily mean they are great providers.
So true^^^
you have been around far too many weak minded, apathetic, low- willpower men (of which there surely is an abundance these days, thanks to soy),
^^^ROFL (is that still a thing?)
I don’t buy it. A full time employee making 15$ an hour (minimum wage here) still makes roughly 2Gs per month after taxes. Factor in your rent, health insurance, car insurance, cell phone bill, groceries, gas etc., you still have 3-400 to save each month. It’s all about making good choices financially and personally.Or maybe you've worked a lot of dead-end jobs.
Bro, I deleted my comment.I don’t buy it. A full time employee making 15$ an hour (minimum wage here) still makes roughly 2Gs per month after taxes. Factor in your rent, health insurance, car insurance, cell phone bill, groceries, gas etc., you still have 3-400 to save each month. It’s all about making good choices financially and personally.
Son of aBro, I deleted my comment.
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Men and women have different roles in life...we need to go back to respecting that.And honestly what’s so bad about being a woman dude? We have vaginas and boobs and brains and work ethic. We can be the trophy wife and the CEO. We have options. The sooner the female race realizes that good (not these sorry excuses we see these days) men will always want to biologically provide for us and protect us, the better. The sooner women realize that, YEAH, generally, young men are going to consider your fertility (this is usually subconscious) because HOLY SHIT women are the key to life!!!! We are the most sacred, cherished beings on this earth and should be treated as such. I could get into the science behind this statement but I really don’t think anyone cares.
You know? Like Chris Farley in Tommy Boy?
No worries. I understand.You know? Like Chris Farley in Tommy Boy?
Yes I do understand how systemic oppression works. I also understand that anything MACRO starts at the MICRO. Emulating your oppressors and taking on the traits you don’t like in them for yourself... what does that make you? My ideal world will never exist and you have about zero goddamn clue what it would even look like cuz you don’t know me. Right?Come one, you're not that stupid. You understand damn well how systemic oppression works. You know women don't have the power to systemically oppress men or objectify them. You want to keep believeing in your ideal world where men and women are equal because you're a sellout, period.
You've admitted yourself you prefere men to women, so you're probably one of these pickmes who care more about coddling male ego than anything.
where the hell do you live that the minimum wage is 15$/hour and rent isn’t Atleast $1500 per month?I don’t buy it. A full time employee making 15$ an hour (minimum wage here) still makes roughly 2Gs per month after taxes. Factor in your rent, health insurance, car insurance, cell phone bill, groceries, gas etc., you still have 3-400 to save each month. It’s all about making good choices financially and personally.
I personally think the financial stress is not worth it. I would rather stay alone and fend for myself than be with someone who's broke or earns less than I do. And besides from you, other people didn't give anecdotal evidence but rather emotional diatribes about assuming that a relationship where a man is higher earning is inevitably about exchanging sex for money. As if hetero dating was always like prostitution. Which it was, or is? because at the end of the day it's about exchanging the same things though, so it's really not that different. Or maybe times are changing slowly. But for a long time, women had no other choice to survive (they weren't allowed to work) than sell their body to a man=the socially acceptable form of prostiution which we call marriage. Or sell her body to several men, which was called as it is and was deemd degrading, then and now. It's a bleak picture but that's what it was (and still is in many different countries). Money has always been used as a way to keep women below men in society. Men have more access to high paying jobs. Navigating a male-dominated field is still very new for women, because until recently we were still relegated to subordinate jobs or being a housewife. Men having easier access to money, it makes sense that they should be the providers, until women are on an equal playing field.Y'know, multiple people here, of various genders, have given you anecdotal evidence of successful relationships that are based on cooperation and teamwork regardless of income or wealth difference, and you keep arguing against it... against the experiences of literally everyone else here. I'm sorry you've clearly had bad experiences, but maybe, instead of telling us that our daily lives are impossible, you should reconsider based on that evidence, and realize that it's not so bad for everyone...some make it work, there's hope there.
See, that's a good example right there...on the issue of feminism, you came down in the middle... you saw the colonial attitudes of white academic feminism on one end, VC's kneejerk reaction to a movement he doesn't fully understand on the other end (and yes, male fragility may be a factor - no reason to think he's immune), and concluded that the truth is somewhere in the middle.I personally think the financial stress is not worth it. I would rather stay alone and fend for myself than be with someone who's broke or earns less than I do. And besides from you, other people didn't give anecdotal evidence but rather emotional diatribes about assuming that a relationship where a man is higher earning is inevitably about exchanging sex for money. As if hetero dating was always like prostitution. Which it iwas, or is? because at the end of the day it's about exchanging the same things though, so it's really not that different. It's really not that different if you think about it, or maybe times are changing slowly. But for a long time, women had no other choice to survive (they weren't allowed to work) than sell their body to a man=the socially acceptable form of prostiution which we call marriage. Or sell her body to several men, which was called as it is and was deemd degrading, then and now. It's a bleak picture but that's what it was (and still is in many different countries). Money has always been used as a way to keep women below men in society. Men have more access to high paying jobs. Navigating a male-dominated field is still very new for women, because until recently we were still relegated to subordinate jobs or being a housewife. Men having easier access to money, it makes sense that they should be the providers, until women are on an equal playing field.
One thing I noticed is there seems to be an anti-feminist (I don't really like to call myself a feminist because I don't want to be associated with white feminsts but I identify with feminism as a concept for female advencement) sentiment that's really pervasive on the VC forums, because they follow everything VC says. And since VC said feminism is bad, they will believe it without a second thought. But here is the thing, these radical women empowerement movement will never rich enough momentum to actually change anything because not enough women are joigning them. (At the end of the day, women can get raped, abused and harassed, they still want to believe the majority of men are intrinsically good.)