Pretty much this. What Morita doesn't understand is that men who have even a little bit of wealth and other desirable traits that women find appealing don't have to settle for anything. If you as a woman want a man that makes more than you and who can take care of you financially you need to have something he wants other than being able to wash dishes and do the laundry.Kung fu is pretty dead on.
Wealthy guys have an abundance of options....
Why on Gods green earth would they pick an unpleasant, defensive, and angry woman who despises their sex to pair with?
I mean they have the options of choosing beautiful, pleasant, and/or subordinate women who satisfy their emotional and sexual needs.
As misogynistic as that is, its just the power of wealth.
Don't underestimate the power of a beautiful woman, either.
She's got tremendous advantages over the regular, average, woman.
And combine looks with brains, she's a force to be reckoned with!
A woman with brains and beauty doesn't need a man to succeed in life. If she is clever enough, navigating the terrain of patriarchal society isn't that challenging. She knows how to wield her power when needed, and how to play her cards accordingly.
Any beautiful successful woman I've observed, knows it.
That, in itself, is power.
Be patient. God willing something good for you will come your way. Don't give up.Incidentally I've cancelled my membership of that dating site I mentioned in VC earlier this year beacuse 99% of the women were dimwits, most were divorced rejects who'd completely lost their grip on reality and the things that matter most in life.
Every one without exception said they wanted a man to take them out wining and dining, cinema, theatre, dancing, travel etc but NONE of them said they were lonely and wanted a man to care for and be cared for by..
And you must be either broke or earn less than your wife, isn't it?Lol. But yet you want a man who makes more, which is what the patriarchy reinforces. I think you're a confused woman who doesn't know what she wants.
Both my wife and I make really good money thank God. At one point she did make more but not anymore. But it doesn't matter because our income levels are at a point where it doesn't really matter who makes more.And you must be either broke or earn less than your wife, isn't it?
Because women dating broke men or men who eran less is going to end the patriarchy by your logic? How does that make sense? If you don't realize how stupid your argument is there is nothing I can do about it.
What you don't understand is that an individual woman's choice has never, and cannot overthrow an entire system.
For patriarchy to end, women would have to create their own society independant from men.
Also, hy don't you respond to elsbet question (post 118)??