They are traumatised. Like really. I Wonder if they became the abusers now. I remember that yt recommanded me a variety show, it wasn't about bts members, but about Wonho, or Jackson, or it was someone else i don't really remember. There was a scene that disgusted me. I don't either remember the "context" but god. It was so awfull to watch this part. An idol was holding an old man in a bathroom ( its not the real term but anyway im not english so sorry really) the position bro, the position ! They were already in the water of course. Just atrocious.
The younger was holding the other like if his life depending it. Of course it was scripted, because the idol was umconfortable as fuck, they were in underwear beach, half naked. The old Guy smiled like a fucking pedo, with others members and staff who were laughing in the background. Of course, don't forget the music to change perception and to do believe at the spectator, that everything is OK with this stuff and they are just here for funs and tv show. I just can't imagine what happened after the cut.
Of course, an idol ( jackson or someone else) hugging an old oppa during their bath together.. its so funny ! *rolls his eyes*