it was last Saturday, the 15th. At the Ft Worth Texas concert. He was definitely upset about something. Maybe something happened backstage before the concert. He was his much better the second half of the concert. Maybe he was over it by then? I have to admit, he is one of my favorites. He seems sweet and sensitive. Like he wears his heart on his sleeve.
A girl I know went to the show in Hamilton and she said he wasn't energetic and seemed to not really be into it at the beginning of the show too.
She also said JM seemed much colder in person until whenever he smiled.
No telling what is going on with T@3. Had I not watched Burn the Stage, I wouldn't have known he and J1n had a small fight backstage at the show I went to last year. We don't know what really goes on behind the glamour.
Yo. You. It's not about the entitlement, it's about the facade they put. I think hundreds of pages back, we discussed how their public personalities are not like their true personalities. I am not surprised that Jin actually an introvert (he was tested as INTP MBTI right?).Why does everyone feel so entitled to knowing everything about celebs? They are allowed to have a personal life that is separate to what is shown in public. Do you also feel entitled to knowing what is going on with the store assistant that is serving you? Do you question why they put on their customer service face and voice when you approach them? Do you need to know everything that happened to them before they turned up at work today or question whether the false smile that they put on when serving you is their alter?
Do you walk around in public crying because you had a bad day? Do you tell strangers in the street about the fight you had with your mum or do you put on a public face and fake a smile until you get back to the privacy of your own home?
Celebs are people too. They have bad days, they get sick, they get tired, the only difference is that they live in the spotlight and their fans feel like they are entitled to every aspect of their life. This is their job. They are performers. The only thing they owe you as a paying customer is a great performance and while they are at work they will put on whatever customer service face they need to, just like the kid serving you a milkshake and fries and the local store will. We all do the exact same thing.
Why is that so hard to understand?
Do you also feel entitled to knowing what is going on with the store assistant that is serving you? Do you question why they put on their customer service face and voice when you approach them?
That's really bleak ways to express it. You said that they are human however, you stated that they owe us services? A great performance?The only thing they owe you as a paying customer is a great performance and while they are at work they will put on whatever customer service face they need to, just like the kid serving you a milkshake and fries and the local store will.
Why does everyone feel so entitled to knowing everything about celebs? They are allowed to have a personal life that is separate to what is shown in public. Do you also feel entitled to knowing what is going on with the store assistant that is serving you? Do you question why they put on their customer service face and voice when you approach them? Do you need to know everything that happened to them before they turned up at work today or question whether the false smile that they put on when serving you is their alter?
Do you walk around in public crying because you had a bad day? Do you tell strangers in the street about the fight you had with your mum or do you put on a public face and fake a smile until you get back to the privacy of your own home?
Celebs are people too. They have bad days, they get sick, they get tired, the only difference is that they live in the spotlight and their fans feel like they are entitled to every aspect of their life. This is their job. They are performers. The only thing they owe you as a paying customer is a great performance and while they are at work they will put on whatever customer service face they need to, just like the kid serving you a milkshake and fries and the local store will. We all do the exact same thing.
Why is that so hard to understand?
Basically.Yo. You. It's not about the entitlement, it's about the facade they put. I think hundreds of pages back, we discussed how their public personalities are not like their true personalities. I am not surprised that Jin actually an introvert (he was tested as INTP MBTI right?).
That what they display, are manufactured and telling that they seem don't enjoy what they are doing, means they suffer.
I know there are people who hate their jobs in rl. But they seem on the top of the game.
That's really bleak ways to express it. You said that they are human however, you stated that they owe us services? A great performance?
It's so capitalistic way of seeing the world. Everything just an exchange of money to service. Or service to money. A transaction.
That's not human.
Human has emotions, human feels.
And talking about their misery and suffering means we empathize them as human.
You better ignore Arcadia. There've been an even worse troll not long ago that made many people leave the thread.. After a while VigilantCitizen took care of the situation and deleted all those persons's posts.This thread has slowed down so much. Did most people who visited it frequently leave/cease posting?
I didn't post that much, but yeah personally I focused on my priorities ( school, family and God)This thread has slowed down so much. Did most people who visited it frequently leave/cease posting?
I've always seen that fierce staring from Jamal even when he wears sunglassesA girl I know went to the show in Hamilton and she said he wasn't energetic and seemed to not really be into it at the beginning of the show too.
She also said JM seemed much colder in person until whenever he smiled.
No telling what is going on with T@3. Had I not watched Burn the Stage, I wouldn't have known he and J1n had a small fight backstage at the show I went to last year. We don't know what really goes on behind the glamour.
I tell you what, if I saw the girl selling me my fries and milk shake crying, I'd ask her what was wrong and if I could help her in any way. It's called human empathy. People care about thsee boys just like any other person they see. You say they are human but don't want to know what they are so sad and upset about? When you see suffering, you automatically want to help. Unless you lack basic empathy.Why does everyone feel so entitled to knowing everything about celebs? They are allowed to have a personal life that is separate to what is shown in public. Do you also feel entitled to knowing what is going on with the store assistant that is serving you? Do you question why they put on their customer service face and voice when you approach them? Do you need to know everything that happened to them before they turned up at work today or question whether the false smile that they put on when serving you is their alter?
Do you walk around in public crying because you had a bad day? Do you tell strangers in the street about the fight you had with your mum or do you put on a public face and fake a smile until you get back to the privacy of your own home?
Celebs are people too. They have bad days, they get sick, they get tired, the only difference is that they live in the spotlight and their fans feel like they are entitled to every aspect of their life. This is their job. They are performers. The only thing they owe you as a paying customer is a great performance and while they are at work they will put on whatever customer service face they need to, just like the kid serving you a milkshake and fries and the local store will. We all do the exact same thing.
Why is that so hard to understand?
You better ignore Arcadia. There've been an even worse troll not long ago that made many people leave the thread.. After a while VigilentCitizen took care of the situation and deleted all those persons's posts.
Are you back @XVI?More and more people realise they're better off improving and helping themselves rather than repeating the same ol stuff that ain't gonna get them further from this fandom culture.
No one is making anyone leaving. Some of you came back after writing sob stories about how those trolls ruined this thread and that you had no place to fangirl over those helpless guys any more and that you swore it was your last post. The rest that don't come back simply moved on to something better.
How to help? I think we must be aware of dirt disguised in glitter. Like fame, hedonistic lifestyle, celebrating evil. We have to pay attention to what, to which, to who, our consciousness laid upon.More and more people realise they're better off improving and helping themselves rather than repeating the same ol stuff that ain't gonna get them further from this fandom culture.
@VigilantCitize..If you believe in God, then do whatever He commands you to do.
Yeah, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I'd also like to add another one: God helps those who help themselves.
I don't know what you mean by how to help, whether it's meant for other so-called ex fans or the BTS members.
Establish the sense of right or wrong, like empathize when seeing someone suffers
It's been talked about many times on this very thread that the members don't need any of our help (I can quote you some good posts on it), so there's no need to "emphatise" what BTS is going through when they choose the path themselves with full consciousness. When you're busy analysing, they probably are just laughing all the way to the bank.
If what you mean by helping is to help other ex fans, well, you also have to realise that the first person that badly needs your help is your own self. There must be a standard set within yourself of what to do after all this debunking and revealing. You talked so much about the good side, the light; but have you shown any real effort that reflects your words and your way of thinking when you're just busy emphatising with the members? It's not like they're trapped in the first place. Even if they were, they always had a choice though obviously it's not easy to get out. Again, it's always easier to start with yourself before you put so much effort on other people, especially those who evidently don't need your help.
True then. I agree.If you believe in God, then do whatever He commands you to do.
Yeah, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I'd also like to add another one: God helps those who help themselves.
I don't know what you mean by how to help, whether it's meant for other so-called ex fans or the BTS members.
Establish the sense of right or wrong, like empathize when seeing someone suffers
It's been talked about many times on this very thread that the members don't need any of our help (I can quote you some good posts on it), so there's no need to "emphatise" what BTS is going through when they choose the path themselves with full consciousness. When you're busy analysing, they probably are just laughing all the way to the bank.
If what you mean by helping is to help other ex fans, well, you also have to realise that the first person that badly needs your help is your own self. There must be a standard set within yourself of what to do after all this debunking and revealing. You talked so much about the good side, the light; but have you shown any real effort that reflects your words and your way of thinking when you're just busy emphatising with the members? It's not like they're trapped in the first place. Even if they were, they always had a choice though obviously it's not easy to get out. Again, it's always easier to start with yourself before you put so much effort on other people, especially those who evidently don't need your help.
I don't know. I feel a little bit dizzy when I tried to post something here. My heart beats so fast. And I've lost my train of thoughts. Idk about others.This thread has slowed down so much. Did most people who visited it frequently leave/cease posting?
Do you know that person was very rude and insulted everyone? She was spamming the thread.That's exactly what I meant by "no one is making anyone leaving". In the end, it's up to you whether you will stay or not. No troll is capable to make you leave unless it's your own choice.