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e-Enoch said:
Childhood conditioning/experience has a tremendous effect on every person's development into adulthood...

As we try to observe or even "critique" betees as individuals, we often think about how they were, perhaps, "nurtured" as babies... (and probably think about how we were, as babies, ourselves...)

We may not at all, be able understand well, for sure...

Here's an example of a well-established study on the effect/s of emotional deprivation on babies...

Note: It's interesting that social contact is mentioned as a "substitute for maternal love..."

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Well, since we are talking about traumas and its affect I have this theory/idea about how they handle all the stress, negativity and traumas. I think it very well could be like this.
I guess I will talk from my own experience (and I'm not saying this to get pity or attention or anything like that, actually I'm quite content/happy with this "condition").
I went through lot of traumas, emotional abuse, child neglect and emotional manipulation and then when I got away from all of that I still had depression. Few months ago I guess something finally snapped and I lost the ability to feel sadness and empathy (like at all, no matter how horrible the situation is I just dont feel sadness or pity). And I have these "episodes" when I for few days dont feel anything at all and then the emotions slowly comes back and after some time they shut down again.
Honestly I'm really content with it and my life is so much easier.

So when we come back to the question how b*s are able to withstand everything, the answer could be, they dont. I think its logical and possible they maybe somehow suppressed their emotions. Cuz if I imagine everything they probably went through/are going through I dont think human brain can endure that. Especially jk who got into this when he was still a kid, so I think at least he could have something like this.
 
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Beholden to Paramatma said:
Your are absolutely right in being creeped out by this song.
https://anna-something.tumblr.com%2Fpost%2F165471294193
In the above blog post a minor who is a survivor of sexual assault & a woman both share how predatory they think the lyrics to this song are.
But I’ve gotta give it to their lyricism for deftly obscuring the meaning to make it Seem banterous & playful.

Besides, in the original Grimms Brothers Pied Pipers tale, the rats are lead to their death by the pied piper which in this case are the arm freaks & BTS respectively.
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Wait arent in the original pied piper story kids kidnapped? I remember that the pied piper kidnapped all the kids cuz they were all hypnotized by the music and followed him.
 
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nmatejakova said:
Well, since we are talking about traumas and its affect I have this theory/idea about how they handle all the stress, negativity and traumas. I think it very well could be like this.
I guess I will talk from my own experience (and I'm not saying this to get pity or attention or anything like that, actually I'm quite content/happy with this "condition").
I went through lot of traumas, emotional abuse, child neglect and emotional manipulation and then when I got away from all of that I still had depression. Few months ago I guess something finally snapped and I lost the ability to feel sadness and empathy (like at all, no matter how horrible the situation is I just dont feel sadness or pity). And I have these "episodes" when I for few days dont feel anything at all and then the emotions slowly comes back and after some time they shut down again.
Honestly I'm really content with it and my life is so much easier.

So when we come back to the question how b*s are able to withstand everything, the answer could be, they dont. I think its logical and possible they maybe somehow suppressed their emotions. Cuz if I imagine everything they probably went through/are going through I dont think human brain can endure that. Especially jk who got into this when he was still a kid, so I think at least he could have something like this.
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Thank you for your comment and for sharing your personal experience...

Every human being has a different "threshold for pain..."

On one hand, there are those who are very sensitive to pain...be it physical or emotional...

On the other hand, there are those who seem to be able to "endure" any kind or level of "assault..."

Probably, many of us fall in between...

I'm just amazed at the fact that, based on actual accounts of "trauma" experiences that I've come across in my research, in many of these cases, there seem to be some kind of "spiritual/emotional cushioning" that help "victims endure" the horrific experience...

There appears a "period of time..." when the victim does not remember at all what happened...

I believe this is God's way of "intervening" in the person's trauma experience to help him/her "cope with life" and continue living again as "normally as possible..."
 
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nmatejakova said:
Well, since we are talking about traumas and its affect I have this theory/idea about how they handle all the stress, negativity and traumas. I think it very well could be like this.
I guess I will talk from my own experience (and I'm not saying this to get pity or attention or anything like that, actually I'm quite content/happy with this "condition").
I went through lot of traumas, emotional abuse, child neglect and emotional manipulation and then when I got away from all of that I still had depression. Few months ago I guess something finally snapped and I lost the ability to feel sadness and empathy (like at all, no matter how horrible the situation is I just dont feel sadness or pity). And I have these "episodes" when I for few days dont feel anything at all and then the emotions slowly comes back and after some time they shut down again.
Honestly I'm really content with it and my life is so much easier.

So when we come back to the question how b*s are able to withstand everything, the answer could be, they dont. I think its logical and possible they maybe somehow suppressed their emotions. Cuz if I imagine everything they probably went through/are going through I dont think human brain can endure that. Especially jk who got into this when he was still a kid, so I think at least he could have something like this.
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I'm sorry you went through similar experiences. Did the people in your life intentionally traumatize you? I shutdown too, and suppress memories to function.
 
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Berrywon88 said:
I think it's not even a debate that jk is the most popular member of b*s, but then I wonder why t*e has so many more followers on insta. I checked his account and his numbers just keep climbing. He now has 2M more followers than jk. The gap keeps increasing! Like wtf! He's leaving the rest of them in the dust. He does post a lot though but idk.
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Well the reason can be bought followers, I heard that celebrities do it very often so I would be surprised if b*s didnt do it as well.
 
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It's really incredible how we suffer of the same things, even when the trauma situation wasn't the same for any of us in here. I know we can all perceive it differently because of our own inner force and way of dealing with suffering. But what impressed me here, is the common fact, that a lot of us have forgotten a good part of their childhood or even teenage moments. Whatever the traumas, the ending is the same for a lot of us. I am unable to recall some bigs parts of my childhood. And I know that it wasn't just suffering. I had very very good moments too. I know it. But I am not able to remind it correctly, or sometimes it's just bribes. So so complicated to explain correctly ! I'm just 25 and I can't remember some of my best like worst moments, at least, there isn't the images who runs in my brain. It's not just about the traumas moments, it happens even if you had a good childhood. And the worst in there, it's that sometimes you didn't even need to be traumatized. It's just your brain who decides when you will have right to remember something, or when it estimates it should just be thrown to the trash for the rest of your life. It's like a computer so we shouldn't be so surprised.

It's really fucked up and hard because of course, I still have some memories, but if I want to recall some parts of my teenage years, that's for sure. I have forgotten a loooooot of things. Good or bads moments. It's too difficult for puting words about this type of events.
 
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Kimiko said:
Exactly

I also think that jk is straight ,same as h0bi

Jk just provides good fan service when he feels like it and barely tolerates it when he isnt feeling it

Jk looked so done and over jm in that scene and basically moved away from him in seeming irritation

And I do think jk and kth are not nearly as close as they pretend ,neither is kth and jm

I think they were close once but as they grew up they grew apart
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Yeah even if they were very close when they started it's only natural that they arent anymore. It happened with every boyband and it happens in real life as well.
It's very very rare when close friendship lasts (especially at the age when they started). Honestly did anyone here found very close friend(s) when they were at the age of b*s members when they started and the friendship stayed? I doubt so and if it did then it's very rare case. It's nothing against b*s, it's just the way the life is. We keep changing and because of that we keep changing people who are close to us.
 
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JimiJymy2 said:
Lol, i thought gg translate became a bit better.
Don't worry, you're doing well.
The fact that there are many things that are not easy to understand could be a protection in itself.



Yeah, we shall wait and see.



It's Interesting that yesterday yout*be celebrated one trillion views of Minecraft videos on their platform. Then, stb post this the next day.
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Sorry but the "stb" is so funny XD in my country stb was the name of secret police during the communist era lol XD
 
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