That's a good analysis and not overthinking at all. The site below has saved me many time from bad relationships. When a guy blows hot and cold, he wants to be the driver and you the passenger. Both of the partners should decide the direction to go, not just one person. Unless he's ready to be your man around everyone, dump that mfer. I just got out of a toxic relationship, so I understand how some men plays games with your mind.
Don't disregard your intuition. You sound very smart and wise beyond your years. There was a post about a fan who got taken advantage of by the group. She wouldn't say what they did only that it wasn't what she wanted, and one of them was very violent with another member before the encounter. Imagine a lot of men want to be with you together. That's sick and could hurt or kill you. Our parts aren't meant for that type of stuff. The reason Jk was so good with her is because he respected her for saying no and he's a rebel. Lately everything is no and he doesn't care what anyone says about it.
Thank you, I said that because that's what people always say to me, that I see too far away, but most of the time, days, weeks or even months give me right, and I wasn't thinking wrong. Of course I can still make mistakes, but my intuitions can be pretty good when it comes to some human behavior ( of course I have my limits and I'm not a psychologist) but there were moments in my life when I could nearly predict some events in my routine, it's scary at the beggining, and if you talk about something like this to someone, you can be sure that this person is going to tell you :" girl stop smoking" xD but the problem is that some time after, they come to me to say " sorry. You were right how did you know?"
The more frustrating is that I struggle to explain how my brain had processing the informations, because everything come in the same time in my mind in some seconds, and then when I should explain in an oral way, I am like :" huum... oh god , how to explain this? Heeerm.." I want to explain everything and in the best way possible, but it becomes quickly complicated. So I just finished to explain by intuition, but there are so much more about this. Such complex subject
It was my life in a nutshell xD so thanks for your kind words.
I am happy if some people save you from bad relationship or toxic. I never had toxic love relationship because I privileged so much more the friendship, but unfortunately I had toxic relationship with people I thought they were my friends. It breaks my heart, so I don't want to be involved in love relationship, and I think I have too high expectations about men too, so I really think I will finished my life alone with my little cat xD I am 25 and I speak as if my life was already terminated, but when you see the behavior of some of them, I prefer to stay single
Wait, wait, wait ? What did you write ? That a girl was forced to do something she didn't want ? And she was agressed by several members in the same time? ( I didn't understand well this part) even if it was just one member, and if she didn't lie, that's very messed up for her.
And for the violence between the members, is this really surprising ? I wonder what the argument was about and which the member was