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nmatejakova

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I don't read fan fiction, but one thing I'm curious about is how can you have a y/n scenario with a group that doesn't even speak your language. Like do these girlies imagine they're a Korean woman or what? Or are the members suddenly fluent in English lol. I just don't get how you could fantasize being with these guys when you wouldn't even be able to hold a conversation with them. It's funny to me.
Honestly this y/n never sit right with me. I admit I used to like read ff (not about real people though, just about series or movies or books). Cuz it's just so ultra extremely weird to imagine yourself in that situation/plot. You read books to run away from the reality/get lost in it. Not to imagine yourself in even more problems lol.
Also it's so extremely delusional (especially if it's about real people) to just imagine yourself in the plot.
Idk y/n just seems so extremely wrong to me.
 

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nmatejakova

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Thank you for your comment and for sharing your personal experience...

Every human being has a different "threshold for pain..."

On one hand, there are those who are very sensitive to pain...be it physical or emotional...

On the other hand, there are those who seem to be able to "endure" any kind or level of "assault..."

Probably, many of us fall in between...

I'm just amazed at the fact that, based on actual accounts of "trauma" experiences that I've come across in my research, in many of these cases, there seem to be some kind of "spiritual/emotional cushioning" that help "victims endure" the horrific experience...

There appears a "period of time..." when the victim does not remember at all what happened...

I believe this is God's way of "intervening" in the person's trauma experience to help him/her "cope with life" and continue living again as "normally as possible..."
Agree for everyone its completely different and it's just so fascinating. I have always been so fascinated by how human brain works.
 

nmatejakova

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I'm sorry you went through similar experiences. Did the people in your life intentionally traumatize you? I shutdown too, and suppress memories to function.
It's hard too tell. I guess it wasnt intentional. It's really complicated cuz my family (from my mother's side) is this big never ending cycle of abuse in which the abused always becomes abuser towards her children. And there are also some mental illnesses so it's really complicated. It goes through many generations so its impossible to tell when this cycle started.
The reason why I wrote about this was that when it started I didnt know what it was and spend lot of time trying to Google it but I only found similar things not the same things so I thought its interesting enough to mention it.
It's really comforting to find someone who is experiencing the same thing.
 

Aamy

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I hope these armi are thirteen butthat makes it just as weird

They also are amazed that jyn isnt grey headed and in a walker at the ripe old age of twenty nine :rolleyes:
And it's at this moment you should understand how we are in deep shit with them. Because I can totally assure that they aren't even teenagers. You've got some mothers and grown women who call him daddy xD
 

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I don't believe he's dating that actress, purely because I refuse to acknowledge and believe that a whole ass GROWN 31 year old woman is really stupid and/or thirsty enough to fuck up her bag by thirstapping on insta with so many things that could later connect her to the maknae. Why are these women stuck on stupid mode? If you've secured a bts member, just disappear from the Internet lol. The clout chasing is just tragique.
 

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I thought you said concerts in 2019 not these recent L.A. concerts. There was rumors for months that jk was dating an actress and now we know that it's probably true.
Sorry if i said the year wrong. I went to see the concert on 11/28 and he was just different like quite and all over the place. He even care about the youtube* Jesyca who was there too waiting for him to notes her. I said to my friend he was dating someone. My boss work in the industry (entertainment) like Oscar, Grammy and etc.
she said when a company denies to quickly a rumor it because is not true and if they don’t denied it, be aware of it.
 

JimiJymy2

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For 2021, B*s has gotten away with releasing only one single, a collab, and a crappy bside. They haven't released a full album in what? 2 yrs?? All of their "work" this yr was zillions of advertisements...fila, samsung, McDonald's, LV etc. And other than Run, all content armies had to pay for. What a joke this group is. They sold out big time!
Maybe to release a full album the condition is that it has to be 100% in English… War zone in the company probably.

If that’s the case, let’s be thankful that the full album release is being delayed, lol
 

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I don't believe he's dating that actress, purely because I refuse to acknowledge and believe that a whole ass GROWN 31 year old woman is really stupid and/or thirsty enough to fuck up her bag by thirstapping on insta with so many things that could later connect her to the maknae. Why are these women stuck on stupid mode? If you've secured a bts member, just disappear from the Internet lol. The clout chasing is just tragique.
I seriously thought she was around his age. I'm shocked not because he could be dating a woman in her 30s, but because she acts a lot younger. Like a teenager, with silly posts that show hints that she's with the biggest idol on the planet omg! Two bunnies kissing, fav place is Busan, fave singer is jk. She's reminding me of the richie social climber t*e was with...unnamed.png
But if jk and this woman are happy than more power to them.

Oh and I would also like to say she's a far cry from m!j00. I guess jk doesn't have a type and is all over the place. Sounds about right honestly.
 

Riko

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I seriously thought she was around his age. I'm shocked not because he could be dating a woman in her 30s, but because she acts a lot younger. Like a teenager, with silly posts that show hints that she's with the biggest idol on the planet omg! Two bunnies kissing, fav place is Busan, fave singer is jk. She's reminding me of the richie social climber t*e was with...View attachment 68113
But if jk and this woman are happy than more power to them.

Oh and I would also like to say she's a far cry from m!j00. I guess jk doesn't have a type and is all over the place. Sounds about right honestly.
At least Tae's famewhore can bankroll him while he takes spa holidays with his various male besties lol, this actress is going out sad, her feed is pure cringe and tbf that boy isn't going to commit for shite, he's probably had thousands of tittys in his DM's since day 1,just waiting on the lockdowns to be over so he can start hoeing in peace. I need these girls to be smarter, goddamn.
 
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