I don't think I would ever change your mind in this, and have no interest in fighting you or your beliefs,
but I do hope that you and others on this thread maintain the ability to SEPARATE what many call "wokeism" these days, and on the opposite
spectrum, what we call "conservative".
Actual gay, trans etc. ppl, for the most part, have nothing to do with the AGENDA that elites DO push, and it is the agenda that I am no fan of at all.
This agenda actually really hurts those communities and is stupid, because it creates the impression that being gay etc. is just some "trendy" thing and because it makes a lot of ppl hate these communities even more.
But please remember that lgbt+ do go through immense struggles and deserve to be treated with dignity and humanity.
I had a good friends who was a trans person, and witnessed first hand the struggles they were going through.
They struggled with feeling suicidal for a long time, self harm, and all the rest of it.
Whether you personally like feminine looking men, is up to your personal tastes and beliefs, and men being FORCED to dress in that manner,
which is probably what happens in these bands, is something I am completely against.
But there is, albeit a minority, men who want to dress or express themselves in more feminine ways, and if they are adults and that is truly their will, please let us just show basic human respect and kindness in the face of that decision.
No one is forcing you to make out with them or anything.