Taemin had a breakdown during Shinee japan video,he went out without telling goodbye to fans,and i think he almost fainted when they deleted the japan fansign ,so it was emotionally broken,that's why 5m didn't answered after what happened even if fans were worried,maybe Taemin himself wanted privacy considering toxic fans and how kpop is.He is considered the best dancer in kpop but not the best voice,and he has symptoms like trauma,he doesn't remember the past memories,and Jonghyun wanted Ta3min in 4things show,he wanted him during Blue night,he promoted him,he supported him,he posted on his instagram about his concert.Ta3min talked about him like he knew him well,he said that he is not like he seems and that he was worried for him for his busy schedule..Also the moment when he cried for Timoteo in "The unit"is recorded one months before Jh death,and i don't believe he was broken for Timoteo only,i think others problems pushed him to cry.
I think after reading a post about Cocktail that they had a relationship(explicit lyrics),because Ta3min song Thirsty is similar to Cocktail,and there are songs in Ta3min album about pain about loosing someone,for example Monologue,Under my skin.Also there is a part in Cocktail about someone who has glamour and is admired by others,maybe Jh was jealous because felt that Ta3min was praised(Move era),and he was scared to loose him(this is my suppositions, i am not sure about it)
About Onew could the sex scandal be an humiliation ritual?
I saw the video,he was absent a lot of times,how it is possible?And this happened before the car crash