I do understand from where you’re coming from and I know you mean well. I admit I haven't been regular on this thread, so I might have missed the problems in the interactions between the members you've mentioned about.hmm i never encouraged them to stop posting. the problem is the way they post and interact tho. the current environment will affect how this thread is going in the future. so instead of waking up the new users, i think they will be affected by the current environment (the disguised fandom behind all this woke talk). this is a fact proven by your own member. remember mochiamour? see the 2 posts i reposted above. she got tired of this thread because she started wanting to be exclusive, she wanted only people who supported the boys (in her own terms), she also disliked the new members, this is what she wrote. if she aint being exclusive idk what it is
And if it's decided to abandon this thread, please keep the new link to PM's so that trolls can't find it either lol the only people who should be given the link are the longtime/regular posters imo.
again, so you realise theyre deep in the occult right? youre sick of the occult right? so why do you still talk about them? doesnt it cause you headache and make you furious? or do you embrace the feelings of being "woke" but still able to somehow fangirling over these boys? its still called fangirling, no matter the form
do you have to talk about them whenever they release a new mv, a new song, a new commercial? analysing everything, feeling everything, is it necessary? is it helping you to get rid of your obsession? or is this how you embrace the obsession in another way?
The thing I wanted to say is some people might find it unnecessary to talk or analyze everything like you said. It might have been easier for yourself to completely disconnect (perhaps you were aware of the occult for a longer time). But you have to keep in mind for many members here (esp the younger ones) it’s all still new for them. Yes, some members still like the boys or care for them but the fact that they’re here and not ‘’fangirling’’ on twitter is a positive thing. It shows they’re open minded and willing to take the necessary steps to move on. How long that will take differs from person to person.
In the meantime, I think these threads will be helpful and if they want to share their thoughts or discuss the latest news, I don’t see any problem.
As for members like yourself who don’t see the point of continuously talking about these things, I think showing patience and understanding would be a better alternative than making them feel bad for even saying they might like the boys. I just think this thread should be a haven for people to share their thoughts even if we disagree. I’m sure you know and can relate to how frustrating and lonely it can be if you don’t have anyone to talk to regarding these topics.
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