Is LGBT+ acceptance campaign starting to backfire?

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Who decides what is right? How did we get the standard for right in the first place and does right matter more than someone’s idea of right?
Giant men passing themselves off as women/girls so that they can physically smash on or dominate legitimate, natural females is wrong Lisa..... sorry you cant see that. Or is it just that you are bored with being ignored so you decided to come at me w/your left-field inquiry here?
 

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Giant men passing themselves off as women/girls so that they can physically smash on or dominate legitimate, natural females is wrong Lisa..... sorry you cant see that. Or is it just that you are bored with being ignored so you decided to come at me w/your left-field inquiry here?
It’s not left-field. I agree that it’s wrong but how do we get the idea that it’s wrong? Is there a standard of right and wrong and where did that standard come from, do ya know?
 

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It’s not left-field. I agree that it’s wrong but how do we get the idea that it’s wrong? Is there a standard of right and wrong and where did that standard come from, do ya know?
Yes Lisa I know.......
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Who decides what is right? How did we get the standard for right in the first place and does right matter more than someone’s idea of right?
Father (Our Creator) decides what is right.

That's why He gave us His Perfect Law in writing, so there would be no confusion over what is right and what is wrong.

That's why we were COMMANDED by Christ NOT to judge by any other standard other than Father's.
 

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Father (Our Creator) decides what is right.

That's why He gave us His Perfect Law in writing, so there would be no confusion over what is right and what is wrong.

That's why we were COMMANDED by Christ NOT to judge by any other standard other than Father's.
That’s how we all know..
Romans‬ ‭2:14-15‬ ‭
For when Gentiles who do not have the Law do instinctively the things of the Law, these, not having the Law, are a law to themselves, in that they show the work of the Law written in their hearts, their conscience bearing witness and their thoughts alternately accusing or else defending them.​
 

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Has anyone on this thread read any of M S King's books? If not, check them out. They go along with this website quietly nicely. Also, if you like films, check out Rod Ager's Collative Learning. All good stuff.
 

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A while back, I read his interview (parody) between Oprah Winfrey and Adolph Hitler. Sounds goofy, right, it's anything but...

Sorry, not religious...
 

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Ultimately, God is completely irrelevant here.
Because even if I would become convinced tomorrow, for some reason, that the christian god exists, it would not at all change my opinion on homosexuality and supposed moral implications thereof.

None of the facts surrounding homosexuality would be changed by that.
It would still be common throughout the animal kingdom.
It would still be obvious that for gay people, it is anything but a "free choice".

I'm a heterosexual and I can honestly tell you that even for a million dollars, I would be physically incapable of gay sex. It would not turn me on and I would be physically unable to do it. I would not and could not hold an erection even if my life depended on it. Because I can't choose what arouses me. And I can guarantee you that even only the mental picture of gay sex will put my sergeant-general to sleep in a matter of seconds - and it would be knocked out for quite some time afterwards.

So my theory is that people who claim it is a "choice", are bisexual. Only a bisexual would experience homosexuality as a "choice"... because calling it a "choice", to me anyway, implies the one making that claim to be physically capable of being aroused by the idea of having sex with the same gender.

Being able to do that.... is what makes you gay or at least bi.



So, in conclusion.... all the facts inform me that homosexuality is part of an individual's "biological profile" just as much as your skin pigmentation is. You don't "choose" it. You either are gay / bi or you aren't. And if you are, then you are and nothing you can do will change that.

You might be able to "suppress" it and live unhappily. But it will always be a part of you.
 

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The thread is anti-LGBT from Christian moralism. The video is more than relevant.
There are atheists and agnostics who disagree with the constant pro-LGBT propaganda everywhere. A few family members of mine plus all of my in-laws. One fringe benefit of not living in "the big smoke" is that personal fronts on PC matters don't have to be maintained UNLESS you actually have to interact with LGBT people.
 

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There are atheists and agnostics who disagree with the constant pro-LGBT propaganda everywhere. A few family members of mine plus all of my in-laws. One fringe benefit of not living in "the big smoke" is that personal fronts on PC matters don't have to be maintained UNLESS you actually have to interact with LGBT people.
My disbelief of god(s) has nothing whatsoever to do with the facts of reality.


It doesn't matter if I believe in God(s) or not. Gay people will still be gay. The sky will still look blue. Things will still fall down and not up. The earth will still be 4.5 billion years old. Life will still evolve.

In short: the entire universe will keep on existing the way it does, regardless of what I believe (or not).

Their right to their natural sexual leanings should not be in your hands to decide.
 

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According to the traditional definitions of sin, sin must always involve a choice. Thus, the claim that attraction to the same sex is sinful implies that attraction to the same sex is a choice. But no one chooses who they are sexually attracted to. Nevertheless, people who are bisexual can choose to ignore one aspect of their sexuality, so that they can have the illusion of choice. This is why we see so many bisexual people claim to have "found Jesus," and "repent" of their homosexuality, and make the "choice" to be heterosexual. In reality, they are simply choosing to ignore the homosexual aspect of their sexuality and choose to only focus on the heterosexual aspect.

For people who are either 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual, sexual orientation is not a choice. For instance, I could not choose to be attracted to men, even if I wanted to be. In the same way, a homosexual person could not choose to be attracted to the other gender if they wanted to be. A person who is 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual would understand this, which begs the question, why do so many Christians, especially pastors, claim that homosexuality is a choice? I think that the only logical answer is that bisexuality is fairly commonplace in the population, and likely even more common among Christian pastors.

So, since our conclusion implies bisexuality is likely much more common in Christian pastors than in the rest of the population, we should encourage these pastors to celebrate their bisexuality, rather than trying to mask it in homophobic preaching. A study has already confirmed that homophobic men who claim to be heterosexual have measurable responses of arousal to gay porn, while non-homophobic heterosexual men do not. See this study, which verifies my ideas. Is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal? - PubMed - NCBI
 

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It is stories like that which make me think that some transwomen who never have the final ""chop"" and who claim to be gay as well are convincing themselves to be transexual. Somehow it is more socially acceptable to be (male to female) transexual than transvestite.

They get to dress up 24/7 and people are not allowed to snigger behind their backs either. No responsibility, victim card can be pulled at every opportunity, and social justice warriors demand that the rest of us call them 'brave".

Now they are even trying to make gay women pretend they are really women in the bedroom! On this matter I certainly have my sympathy for the lesbian. There is no way you can pretend a penis is a really a vagina. Surely the male smell would still there unless the transsexual is on all the medicines and hormones they take?

I don't have the impression that female to men transsexuals do it for sexual reasons though. Please correct me if I am wrong.
I know one too personally........I have a childhood "friend" - we were raised very early on as sisters, until about 7-8 - she's hardcore gay, wrote her college applications around teen sexuality (got into dartmouth + had stints afterwards at NYU, Columbia, etc) and also was one of the leaders behind getting men to use female toilets, and show-and-tells to young elem. school students of trans/-itioning adults + lobbying for men to be able to stay in female only shelters................ Now she is obsessed with a tween/teenage boy actor who has gotten some play, getting roles as openly trans/gender neutral. This is a grown woman who has been calling a kid since he was 9 or 8, best friends and vice versa............ I can't believe what some parents would allow.

She's had drugs and surgeries on her way to transitioning... not sure of how far along she is, ( basically pull out some intestines,etc ,etc - I don't ask/don't care), but yeah, sexuality is a huge part - literally having sex as your perceived gender. Its not "good", etc unless it is as a "male" - the most male possible. On the academic dispora around trans-idenities (stayed over in her place for a week 3 years ago, and thumbed through her library of textbooks/books, the theme is repeated with both current and historical accounts/journals.

I don't care who you are I am just not interested in whom you are having sex with. In my opinion if you tell everyone you are gay, they you are basically telling everyone whom you are having sex with, I care not to know who anyone is having sex with.
Exactly. I really don't care what is going on in your pants. Keep it to yourself.

I'm much more interested in breaking down salary histories, current pay, roles and qualifications - but ppl's heads are stuck in their crotches :/

On the bus once, a creep sat next to me, and put his arm behind my head, and spread out his legs, pressing against me. I told him to keep to his own seat, and he said he was gay. I told him I didn't care, I have no interest in marrying you - therefore your sexuality is none of my business. Keep to your own seat. Needless to say, the perv still had his body parts all over me....
 
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The thread is anti-LGBT from Christian moralism. The video is more than relevant.
Not really . . . This thread discusses schisms occurring within the community itself because of an oversaturation of PC culture as well. From a non-religous perspective, there is an ideology present around the social construction of homosexuality/transgenderism and THAT is what is getting discussed here. Reasons for disliking it ranges from religious conviction to natural repulsion. Or some people just hate what the community has come to represent as it's been co-opted in the game of divisive identity politics.
Ultimately, God is completely irrelevant here.
Because even if I would become convinced tomorrow, for some reason, that the christian god exists, it would not at all change my opinion on homosexuality and supposed moral implications thereof.

None of the facts surrounding homosexuality would be changed by that.
It would still be common throughout the animal kingdom.
It would still be obvious that for gay people, it is anything but a "free choice".

I'm a heterosexual and I can honestly tell you that even for a million dollars, I would be physically incapable of gay sex. It would not turn me on and I would be physically unable to do it. I would not and could not hold an erection even if my life depended on it. Because I can't choose what arouses me. And I can guarantee you that even only the mental picture of gay sex will put my sergeant-general to sleep in a matter of seconds - and it would be knocked out for quite some time afterwards.

So my theory is that people who claim it is a "choice", are bisexual. Only a bisexual would experience homosexuality as a "choice"... because calling it a "choice", to me anyway, implies the one making that claim to be physically capable of being aroused by the idea of having sex with the same gender.

Being able to do that.... is what makes you gay or at least bi.



So, in conclusion.... all the facts inform me that homosexuality is part of an individual's "biological profile" just as much as your skin pigmentation is. You don't "choose" it. You either are gay / bi or you aren't. And if you are, then you are and nothing you can do will change that.

You might be able to "suppress" it and live unhappily. But it will always be a part of you.
Please, not the animal argument. That is such a weak line of reasoning that has been debunked over and over again. You can't use occurances of behaviour in the animal kingdom to moralise human sexuality but then use human morality to separate other commonplace animal behaviours as non-applicable. Either all animal behaviour that is commonplace is natural to humans or none of it is. Because whatever metrics you use to pick and choose is based on circular reasoning that appeals to (once again) subjective human morals.

And another bad argument with comparing it to skin colour. Take it from a POC -there is no "closet" for someone to slip in undetected on a race basis. Skin pigmentation is an obvious and physically-manifested genetic marker. Unless you're a walking stereotype or tell people, no one will know you are gay. You are comparing a behaviour to a physical reality and those are not the same things. Besides, there still has not been a solid breakthrough on whether sexual orientation is really genetic or not so this is a moot point.
According to the traditional definitions of sin, sin must always involve a choice. Thus, the claim that attraction to the same sex is sinful implies that attraction to the same sex is a choice. But no one chooses who they are sexually attracted to. Nevertheless, people who are bisexual can choose to ignore one aspect of their sexuality, so that they can have the illusion of choice. This is why we see so many bisexual people claim to have "found Jesus," and "repent" of their homosexuality, and make the "choice" to be heterosexual. In reality, they are simply choosing to ignore the homosexual aspect of their sexuality and choose to only focus on the heterosexual aspect.

For people who are either 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual, sexual orientation is not a choice. For instance, I could not choose to be attracted to men, even if I wanted to be. In the same way, a homosexual person could not choose to be attracted to the other gender if they wanted to be. A person who is 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual would understand this, which begs the question, why do so many Christians, especially pastors, claim that homosexuality is a choice? I think that the only logical answer is that bisexuality is fairly commonplace in the population, and likely even more common among Christian pastors.

So, since our conclusion implies bisexuality is likely much more common in Christian pastors than in the rest of the population, we should encourage these pastors to celebrate their bisexuality, rather than trying to mask it in homophobic preaching. A study has already confirmed that homophobic men who claim to be heterosexual have measurable responses of arousal to gay porn, while non-homophobic heterosexual men do not. See this study, which verifies my ideas. Is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal? - PubMed - NCBI
No doubt that some men who are overtly homophobic are probably repressed closet cases. But that doesn't go for everyone -you'd probably describe me as homophobic for my beliefs that it is unnatural and to be honest, yes, the thought of gay men being intimate repulses me. I'm a woman and I'm not the only female who feels that way. So the theory kind of flies out the window there. As for the rest of your post, it's rather arrogant to assume you know anything about another person's sexuality. You automatically assume them bisexual and run with that despite that contention in and of itself being nothing more than projection. Lastly, no one ever claimed sexual attraction was a choice. People here tend to look at different factors that could potentially result in non-heterosexual orientations because whether you believe in God or some other king of intelligent designing force or evolution or biology - It's clear that humans are not built for homosexuality. There's a difference between attraction and behaviour. Guess which is being discussed here.
 
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Ultimately, God is completely irrelevant here.
Because even if I would become convinced tomorrow, for some reason, that the christian god exists, it would not at all change my opinion on homosexuality and supposed moral implications thereof.

None of the facts surrounding homosexuality would be changed by that.
It would still be common throughout the animal kingdom.
It would still be obvious that for gay people, it is anything but a "free choice".

I'm a heterosexual and I can honestly tell you that even for a million dollars, I would be physically incapable of gay sex. It would not turn me on and I would be physically unable to do it. I would not and could not hold an erection even if my life depended on it. Because I can't choose what arouses me. And I can guarantee you that even only the mental picture of gay sex will put my sergeant-general to sleep in a matter of seconds - and it would be knocked out for quite some time afterwards.

So my theory is that people who claim it is a "choice", are bisexual. Only a bisexual would experience homosexuality as a "choice"... because calling it a "choice", to me anyway, implies the one making that claim to be physically capable of being aroused by the idea of having sex with the same gender.

Being able to do that.... is what makes you gay or at least bi.



So, in conclusion.... all the facts inform me that homosexuality is part of an individual's "biological profile" just as much as your skin pigmentation is. You don't "choose" it. You either are gay / bi or you aren't. And if you are, then you are and nothing you can do will change that.

You might be able to "suppress" it and live unhappily. But it will always be a part of you.
Robin answered your statement perfectly so I will not paraphrase what she has already written.

If you want to start a thread in Religious Section on theological angle of LGBT ideology/ belief systems then that will make a good change from the usual run-of-mill religious debates there.
 

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I know one too personally........I have a childhood "friend" - we were raised very early on as sisters, until about 7-8 - she's hardcore gay, wrote her college applications around teen sexuality (got into dartmouth + had stints afterwards at NYU, Columbia, etc) and also was one of the leaders behind getting men to use female toilets, and show-and-tells to young elem. school students of trans/-itioning adults + lobbying for men to be able to stay in female only shelters................ Now she is obsessed with a tween/teenage boy actor who has gotten some play, getting roles as openly trans/gender neutral. This is a grown woman who has been calling a kid since he was 9 or 8, best friends and vice versa............ I can't believe what some parents would allow.

She's had drugs and surgeries on her way to transitioning... not sure of how far along she is, ( basically pull out some intestines,etc ,etc - I don't ask/don't care), but yeah, sexuality is a huge part - literally having sex as your perceived gender. Its not "good", etc unless it is as a "male" - the most male possible. On the academic dispora around trans-idenities (stayed over in her place for a week 3 years ago, and thumbed through her library of textbooks/books, the theme is repeated with both current and historical accounts/journals.
What a sad story to read about your friend and indirectly for you too. It made me think it is another example of how people who try to tell themselves "it's their own life (no-one else will be affected)" causes massive ripple effects onto other people, like a large rock being thrown into a still lake.
That poor kid - it is predatory behaviour, almost pedophiliac type behaviour/ attitudes your friend has towards him. I bet his parents would have been less tolerant if she was a biological man.

How do you think it has changed your relationship with her, or has her sexual identity issues been so much a part of her (since a relatively young age) that you have just learned to accept her as she is?

The way I see it : for transsexuals to live their life as the other sex, they have to go to the most extreme of extreme caricatures possible to look convincing. The women have to wear the most butch clothes and the men have to wear the most girly hairstyles, makeup and clothes.
In real life I have only seen trans men look like this (The clip is showing a transexual, but it is the mind picture I got).


and trans women look like this, slightly more modern hairstyles and fashion though.


Exactly. I really don't care what is going on in your pants. Keep it to yourself.

I'm much more interested in breaking down salary histories, current pay, roles and qualifications - but ppl's heads are stuck in their crotches :/

On the bus once, a creep sat next to me, and put his arm behind my head, and spread out his legs, pressing against me. I told him to keep to his own seat, and he said he was gay. I told him I didn't care, I have no interest in marrying you - therefore your sexuality is none of my business. Keep to your own seat. Needless to say, the perv still had his body parts all over me....
Agree 100%. People like to pretend it is only religious people (including myself) who are anti-LGBT+, but most people were OK with letting people live their own life until everyone started to be forced to pretend that LGBT+ was normal, just an alternative sexuality etc.
Now people are being fired for stating the obvious truth everyone feels at risk from the thought police.
 

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Not really . . . This thread discusses schisms occurring within the community itself because of an oversaturation of PC culture as well. From a non-religous perspective, there is an ideology present around the social construction of homosexuality/transgenderism and THAT is what is getting discussed here. Reasons for disliking it ranges from religious conviction to natural repulsion. Or some people just hate what the community has come to represent as it's been co-opted in the game of divisive identity politics.
Oversaturation, lol.

I'm not talking about "ideology" - whatever you mean by that.
I'm talking about sexual orientation and how it's clearly not a choice that people make.

Please, not the animal argument. That is such a weak line of reasoning that has been debunked over and over again. You can't use occurances of behaviour in the animal kingdom to moralise human sexuality but then use human morality to separate other commonplace animal behaviours as non-applicable. Either all animal behaviour that is commonplace is natural to humans or none of it is. Because whatever metrics you use to pick and choose is based on circular reasoning that appeals to (once again) subjective human morals.
Dude.... one this is pretty much certain: being gay is not a matter of just deciding to be so.
One either is or is not gay or bi or hetero.

That there is no underlying biological explanation (yet) as to be able to say "here, this gene here" or "that hormonal balance right there", or whatever, as being the reason for being gay or not, does not change the fact that gay or hetero people don't choose to be so.

It is a fact that it is not a matter of choice.
And if you would actually spend some time informing yourself, talking to some gay people and looking inwards to your own sexuality and sexual orientation, you would understand this.

But obviously your religious beliefs prevent you from undertaking that sort of test with any form of honesty.

"subjective human morals", I'd like to see what your "objective, nonhuman morals" are, but you do not have any. Your beliefs against gay people come from equally (if not more) subjective morals, however judging by the deity you worship, the word 'moral' can hardly be associated with it. To call the Christian God "moral" would be an oxymoron.

And another bad argument with comparing it to skin colour. Take it from a POC -there is no "closet" for someone to slip in undetected on a race basis. Skin pigmentation is an obvious and physically-manifested genetic marker. Unless you're a walking stereotype or tell people, no one will know you are gay. You are comparing a behaviour to a physical reality and those are not the same things. Besides, there still has not been a solid breakthrough on whether sexual orientation is really genetic or not so this is a moot point.
This is part of the outbreak of homophobia, is that gay, bi and trans people are not well represented and you seem to have big issues with it when they finally get some attention.

No doubt that some men who are overtly homophobic are probably repressed closet cases. But that doesn't go for everyone -you'd probably describe me as homophobic for my beliefs that it is unnatural and to be honest, yes, the thought of gay men being intimate repulses me. I'm a woman and I'm not the only female who feels that way. So the theory kind of flies out the window there. As for the rest of your post, it's rather arrogant to assume you know anything about another person's sexuality. You automatically assume them bisexual and run with that despite that contention in and of itself being nothing more than projection. Lastly, no one ever claimed sexual attraction was a choice.
Good for you. But your asexuality is your business. Other people like sex and don't need you telling them that they are being immoral because they like something that you don't.

Other animal species, who aren't able to achieve orgasms, don't "enjoy" sex but thrive as a species nonetheless. In fact, there are even species out there where the male gets eaten by the female right after depositing his seed.

Clearly, sex doesn't need to be enjoyable in order to ensure procreation.

Contrary to what you seem to believe, you don't get to dictate to others what their purpose in life is.

If you think sexual orientation is a choice, you are bisexual. Only bisexuals get to choose.

People here tend to look at different factors that could potentially result in non-heterosexual orientations because whether you believe in God or some other king of intelligent designing force or evolution or biology - It's clear that humans are not built for homosexuality. There's a difference between attraction and behaviour. Guess which is being discussed here.
Demonstrate it.


God's design happens to include gay people.
Forbidding them to be gay, would thus be against god's design.

If god didn't want gay people, maybe he shouldn't have designed gay people.

It's also very possible that there is another, related (directly or indirectly), trait that IS actually evolutionary relevant and of which the occasional homosexual individual is but a side effect. And that in that way, homosexuality kind of "piggy backed" on the evolutionary wave of that other trait, which is actually the thing that selection favours.

However to me though, all that isn't really relevant in a discussion of whether or not it's okay to be gay.
Just like it doesn't matter to me how evolution made us end up with white and black people. No matter what that explanation is, it's not really going to change anything in the discussion of wheter or not it is okay to be black......

If god designed humans, then it's not outside his design because the fact is that homosexual humans exist.

 
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