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I've heard that it's compulsory for some idols to have to consult with therapy or have a therapist with them at times. I guess it depends on how much the company cares... But I think might hybe have it for them, there's no way they're surviving their mental health without professional help. But sadly therapy might not even do much for them, so many social projects, social media interactions, and the stress caused by them week by week, almost everyday of the year, it's exhausting to even think about!
For Jeon getting no sleep and multiple piercings and tattoos a week I dont think he listens to the health and safety instructions of his own tattoo artist, let alone listening to his therapist. It's a clear sign of his now reckless lifestyle and mental health.
I think they're all seeing someone and maybe a few are medicated. The life of an idol is traumatic. Even when they want to be there, the fans, staff, lack of sleep and starvation diet wear them down. They're barely paid, probably have PTSD, worn out bodies and habits. Why would anyone want that job? People know what happens. It's not hidden in SK, but kids join the industry knowing most of them will be worse after.
 

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I think they're all seeing someone and maybe a few are medicated. The life of an idol is traumatic. Even when they want to be there, the fans, staff, lack of sleep and starvation diet wear them down. They're barely paid, probably have PTSD, worn out bodies and habits. Why would anyone want that job? People know what happens. It's not hidden in SK, but kids join the industry knowing most of them will be worse after.
Whatever you choose in career in Korea, you are going to be pressed like a poor citrus. If you are going to study, to go to the university ( even high scool) you are going to be abuse with jealousy and the pressure between students. And if you choose the kpop world, its in fact the same. I will say that the only thing who is changing at the end of the day, is the domain they choose. Its not only them in the world, but still, if I compare with my country, we are so fucking lucky about a lot of things ( even if its the mess with covid and others stuff) about choosing your career, to be support or your studies. We aren't forced to choose only between school or becoming an idol at all cost. In Korea you should choose between the best elites schools, or sell yourself to the industry of music, movies etc.. to be someone and considered like a human.

There is pressure everywhere, all countries im sure i didnt even know or place to the map, but still its really insane in Korea ( Asian continent in his entierity I dare to think)
 

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Maybe they can't rest correctly anymore ?! My father was used to wake up at 3 am during several years, because he was used to get up to go at his work, its really hard for someone who hasn't any problems to sleep well and quickly in the beginning, but you will be used to very fait too. And if your work is stressfull like having a big career, with a lot of competitions you are too nervous for sleeping.

Do they even can rest well, with the amount of drugs they take? ( pills, smoking, cocaine, etc..) their body is surely used to be mistreat. Its more complicated for the brain to re adapt into good and healthy things ! I'm sure they suffer from eating disorder too. Who the fuck can just eat only an ice cube for the day? There is worst ! So worst ! They don't eat at all for the craziers during several days, are deshydrated too. You can't rest correctly

And their company doesn't fucking care, and are blessed these type of abuse exist. Its easier to have stress/desesperate/lost people to work on them. They know, that with the high competition in their industry, they can switch groups at their please.
i have a feeling they couldn't have sex properly , you need to be relaxed and fine to do certain things well
 

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i have a feeling they couldn't have sex properly , you need to be relaxed and fine to do certain things well
If I was at their place ( firstlty i will be dead since a very long time, psychic or physical) my libido will be so dead too. A lot of people who subit rapes, tend to craving sex with others to erase their trauma, they can finish to appreciate bad treatments, because of the pleasure inversion, the brain made to protect himself during the big trauma. Or the total opposite, they feel disgusting and struggle a lot, to gain thrust one day in their life. Their rapport with the sex thing, is becoming disgusting, because of pigs who bring trauma and ptds syndromes.

So, we don't know what are they rapport with this. Maybe they escape their world with that, maybe they are just playing their sexualized roles, but behind the scenes, they are really disgusting and have a wrong meaning of what sex is and actually don't like it anymore, with old ill men or women by the way, who are just here to traumatize them.

At their level, they aren't thinking like "normal" people do, they are in a big toxic bubble, protect by powerfull persons in charge of their career, they are forced to do things to increase their status, so they won't feel the same things than a sane people. They have unhealthy schedule and lifestyle, and are always exhausted
 

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J@mes will be all over jimn once again but I'm sure all of them are used to older men and women being all over them since debut or even pre debut

Ptd is by far their worst song ever,that's what they should have named it

Ed did them dirty I cant even believe he actually wrote garbage like that! But I cant blame ed cuz he knew,as did hibe and btss,that their dumb ass fans would eat up any pos shit song as long as its btss
 

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An idol that has a wife and kids, can you imagine how btss fans would react if one of this announced a marriage and baby like chen from €xo??

I really think half their fanbase would react like the crazy rabid delulus they are and boycott/try to get said member kicked out the group-which fans tried to do with chen unsuccessfully

The hyung line would still fare better than the maknaes tho-vee would have to be banned off social media cuz he would probably cuss the fans out
 
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An idol that has a wife and kids, can you imagine how btss fans would react if one of this announced a marriage and baby like chen from €xo?? I really think half their fanbase would react like the crazy rabid delulus they are and boycott/try to get said member kicked out the group
That's easy. If one day we will have bts members exposing their wifes, internet will break down as well for social medias. Like litteraly. Even in my country, it will be a cataclysm xD so in Korea, with Saseings and hard core fans? No. Just nope. It will be the equivalent of a hearthquake in the world.
 

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by a chance are you the youtuber kitania rose? i like your videos, they're very informative. :) are you planning on making more?
I'm glad you like them :). I’ve been so lazy lately but yeah planning to do a few more before I retire lol

I feel that if I truly knew all of the wicked depraved shit that these kids have to endure once their parents/legal guardian basically gives them to the evil kpop industry I would be sick to my stomach

Txt and enhyphen are babies

How could parents sleep at night not knowing what their child was going through

Look how effed up it is for kids in Hollywood and most of the time their parents were still there so imagine what happens to kpop iodls where their is no parental figures anymore just the company who sees them as dollar signs
A Christian psychologist once said:" Before the birth, parents pray for the child to be just normal. But then this child will have to shine, succeed, win, be better than all the others. He must be the first to walk, to speak, to ride a bicycle. He will have to present a perfect report, astonish his teachers with his wit and wisdom. He will be captain of the football team and class president. " (PDJ.com)

In some communities, doctor, lawyer, and engineer are some of the career paths that equal “success”. If you have the misfortune not to fall into these categories, a sign will appear on the top of your head with the word “FAILURE” written in capital letters for anyone to celebrate you.

It is possible for some parents after hearing their kids’ experiences of abuse to be stuck in one (or more) of the grief’s stages: Shock or disbelief, denial, bargaining, guilt, anger, depression, and acceptance/hope. (medicinenet.com)

Nowadays, becoming a kpop ‘idol’ is linked to success. Therefore, anything coming in the way would be rejected/denied because this sense of success is not only tied to the child but the parents/family also:

“Abuse happens but surely not to my child”, “Am I a bad parent?”, “what would people say about me/us if they know?” and so on.​

Also, discovering that the child you love is the victim of atrocities could become a form of trauma and/or trigger existing ones. So, different defence/coping mechanisms would be activated to suppress the pain, disappointment, and embarrassment:

“Are you sure it really happened?”, “what have you done to be treated that way?”, “forget about it, let go and focus on your success” and so on.​

I’m just sharing these points based on my own experience and some testimonies I’ve heard.
 

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Not that God awful song again! And I looked at the comments and armpits will end this group. They wonder why people don't want to work with b*s. They will claim it's all racism not getting that them attacking every industry person that doesn't kiss the ground b*s walk on is not beneficial to the group.
They're psychos for real!
 

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An idol that has a wife and kids, can you imagine how btss fans would react if one of this announced a marriage and baby like chen from €xo??

I really think half their fanbase would react like the crazy rabid delulus they are and boycott/try to get said member kicked out the group-which fans tried to do with chen unsuccessfully

The hyung line would still fare better than the maknaes tho-vee would have to be banned off social media cuz he would probably cuss the fans out
Wow congrats to Chen. And yes we can already see a glimpse of how crazy they would be by their complete denial of any dating rumors with b*s. I've seen whole threads of them trying to come up with anything to prove that a member doesn't have a girlfriend. They will stalk the alleged girl's socials for yrs to try and find evidence of her dating anyone but their fave. I really think their head would explode if any of them but especially jk announced they had a girlfriend or wife.ec7903e07898a2a7ca0a6ce00a5c72f0.jpeg.jpg
 

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Not that God awful song again! And I looked at the comments and armpits will end this group. They wonder why people don't want to work with b*s. They will claim it's all racism not getting that them attacking every industry person that doesn't kiss the ground b*s walk on is not beneficial to the group.
They're psychos for real!
What in the name of all that is holy, are they fr! Knives ?!? Oh god! Thats getting worse by the minute.
 

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What in the name of all that is holy, are they fr! Knives ?!? Oh god! Thats getting worse by the minute.
They need professional help! That cartoon drawing is all kinds of disturbing. Notice b*s is grabbing armies by the hair and forcibly taking them away. Talk about supporting abusive relationships. And the armie person is just like "okay" tf. And yes the knives!..it's sick.
 

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They need professional help! That cartoon drawing is all kinds of disturbing. Notice b*s is grabbing armies by the hair and forcibly taking them away. Talk about supporting abusive relationships. And the armie person is just like "okay" tf. And yes the knives!..it's sick.
I didnt notice the hair thing at first, it reminds me of those +20 something psychos stories... thats disturbing. I realised that this parasocial relation bring out the worse in their fans, those lines descript it the best.
 

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Not that God awful song again! And I looked at the comments and armpits will end this group. They wonder why people don't want to work with b*s. They will claim it's all racism not getting that them attacking every industry person that doesn't kiss the ground b*s walk on is not beneficial to the group.
They're psychos for real!
WTF! Like seriously WTF! These crazy pits are sick in the head! That cartoon is so scary!

I remember, some time back, i was watching a video when BTS was doing a vlive and someone sent a "bad comment" about JIMIN, then armies were like, literally cursing, hping the "hater" would die or something. Even though the stupit smelly pits dont have a clue about who sent the comments..
 
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