by a chance are you the youtuber kitania rose? i like your videos, they're very informative.
are you planning on making more?
I'm glad you like them
. I’ve been so lazy lately but yeah planning to do a few more before I retire lol
I feel that if I truly knew all of the wicked depraved shit that these kids have to endure once their parents/legal guardian basically gives them to the evil kpop industry I would be sick to my stomach
Txt and enhyphen are babies
How could parents sleep at night not knowing what their child was going through
Look how effed up it is for kids in Hollywood and most of the time their parents were still there so imagine what happens to kpop iodls where their is no parental figures anymore just the company who sees them as dollar signs
A Christian psychologist once said:" Before the birth, parents pray for the child to be just normal. But then this child will have to shine, succeed, win, be better than all the others. He must be the first to walk, to speak, to ride a bicycle. He will have to present a perfect report, astonish his teachers with his wit and wisdom. He will be captain of the football team and class president. " (PDJ.com)
In some communities, doctor, lawyer, and engineer are some of the career paths that equal “success”. If you have the misfortune not to fall into these categories, a sign will appear on the top of your head with the word “FAILURE” written in capital letters for anyone to celebrate you.
It is possible for some parents after hearing their kids’ experiences of abuse to be stuck in one (or more) of the grief’s stages: Shock or disbelief, denial, bargaining, guilt, anger, depression, and acceptance/hope. (medicinenet.com)
Nowadays, becoming a kpop ‘idol’ is linked to success. Therefore, anything coming in the way would be rejected/denied because this sense of success is not only tied to the child but the parents/family also:
“Abuse happens but surely not to my child”, “Am I a bad parent?”, “what would people say about me/us if they know?” and so on.
Also, discovering that the child you love is the victim of atrocities could become a form of trauma and/or trigger existing ones. So, different defence/coping mechanisms would be activated to suppress the pain, disappointment, and embarrassment:
“Are you sure it really happened?”, “what have you done to be treated that way?”, “forget about it, let go and focus on your success” and so on.
I’m just sharing these points based on my own experience and some testimonies I’ve heard.