Theres no need to provide a rebuttal. All you have done is point out that there have been multitudes of women that have been abused and mistreated in history under certain cultures which I dont deny. However to go a step further and contend that historically speaking mans relation to women is predominantly one of abuse, mistreatment, and subjugation is preposterous. That is classic feminist 101 brainwashing. To contend these systems were designed with subjugation and cruelty in mind rather competency is something you havent proved, but cling to.
I even pointed out that men would exploit and mistreat other men so to act as if it mans mistreatment was exclusive to women on the basis of their gender isnt even true. Weak tribes exploited, enslaved, and took advantage of other weak tribes, men expoliting other men and creating laws diminishing the value of the lives of other men. If you want to argue that men are evil I will agree. If you want to argue that the evil of men somehow affected women more than it did other men then i would say its simply untrue. Unless mens cruelty to women somehow deserves more recognition than mens own cruelty to other men? I thought we were equal....
So I do believe you want to believe as you do, because without it certain stances and reforms dont even become justified. People need a justification for their own prejudices.