- Jan 22, 2018
Either Awoken exposed you or tineye is unreliable
That's not the same guy.Why would I lie?
I forget which dating site the pic was in, but I do remember closing my account because the place seemed like a clearing house for crazy women..
Nowadays I prefer the "in the flesh approach" by checking women out from between the cans of baked beans down the grocers.
PS- speaking of crazy women, I took half a dozen assorted books into a local charity shop the other day but the manageress refused to take them because it was "the wrong day for accepting donations".
So I said "Alright i'll donate them to the other charity shop down the street", and they were glad to have them.
PS again, the men of the world in VC tell me that many women like tough violent blokes, so if I join a dating sire in the future i'll use this "mean moody" pic of myself in my Waffen SS combat jacket..-
That’s just that. There is no need to please others.The idea that women like violent blokes is a disgusting stereotype. The reality is some men just are so gentle that they are no longer sexually attractive. And it has nothing to do with gentleness being bad, it's more about how a gentle dude ends up like a 1 trick pony.
It should be noted my advice has an element of survivors bias. In any case, I will lean on what I've said a hundred times. When you work on yourself and "do you" people notice you more. And people noticing you more leads to more potential shagging.
I'm not an aggressive mack daddy. I'm a huge dork, and people have always made fun of me. But I've still done better than the average man as far as shagging goes. So it's like I said, work on yourself and bring variety to the table.
Confidence, and not being a douche are the easy parts. I mean millions of people fake that shit every day. More importantly, that's a huge part of what's creating these disillusioned men. They see scumbags getting mad chicks and it fucks with them on some deep level. I might even say the MGTOW types are regressing psychologically. Their unconscious "anima" gets projected outward and women become little more than objects.That’s just that. There is no need to please others.
Focus on you and you only. I’ve been in a relationship for over 10 years with my wife. We have two boys, still going strong. She knows my quirks, etc. vice versa. Never felt the need to be something I am not.
I’m confident with myself.
Now of course I acknowledge at some things.
I’m horrible at house decor, I suck at backing up a tow trailer despite me knowing how to drive mack semi’s.
My wife is amazing with woodwork and puts together a better wooden fence than I. Under certain circumstances she is better at power tools, nails/hammer than I.
point I’m getting at is…be confident, don’t doubt yourself, and don’t be a douche. When I see threads about feminism, mgtow etc it’s a shock to me cause I cannot do that to my wife vice versa.
I hope you guys and gals find happiness
Sad. God knows best what has happened to you for you to come to such conclusions.I love how people are advising the op to go visit prostitutes if he's tired of women, as if prostitutes weren't women too. Nice display of misogyny here.
In fact, prostitution and marriage are basically the same. It's hypocritical to say it's not.
That's why there is no such thing as a "trophy wife" (whatever that means). If you're a wife you're the all-time available prostitute that he likes to show off to his bros without being ashamed of himself. That's why men prefer women who are chaste and modest for marriage and hasn't been "around". They don't want to be seen with a prositute on the arm in public.
I know it's controversial but I don't care. Ultimately it's abt exchanging the same things.
Like i said... Sad. I feel sorry for you to have such an out look on life.Women were always sold as a commodity for marriage by their fathers, and now they're selling their bodies and domestic skills themselves bc of patriarchy and capitalism. It's survival.
The number commodity that women can sell is their sexuality. And it's because men have made it so. That's a metaphysical presumption under patriarchy and capitalism: women's function is to be there to serve and please men sexually. It's going to be that way, unless patriarchy and capitalism comes to an end.
From Andrea Dworkin:
The specific—the professional whore— exists in the context of the general—women who are whores by nature.
The professional prostitute is distinguished from other women not in kind but by degree.
Only the maternal can mitigate the whorish, an opposition more conceptual than real, based on the assumption that the maternal or older woman is no longer desired.
There is a right-wing ideology and a left-wing ideology. The right-wing ideology claims that the division of mother and whore is phenomenologically real.
The left-wing ideology claims that sexual freedom is in the unrestrained use of women, the use of women as a collective natural resource, not privatized, not owned by one man but instead used by many.
The most cynical use of women has been on the Left— cynical because the word freedom is used to capture the loyalties of women who want, more than anything, to be free and who are then valued and used as left-wing whores: collectivized cunts. The most cynical use of women has been on the Right— cynical because the word good is used to capture the loyalties of women who want, more than anything, to be good and who are then valued and used as rightwing whores: wives, the whores who breed.