You gave me a good laugh!Try being transgender for a bit.
You can be the type of woman you wish existed.
Lead by example.
Dude, what??You sound like a man of the world mate, so can you advise me about this dilemma-
Sometimes if I ask a woman for a date (or she asks me), we meet up later but then she starts smoking, and nothing turns me off quicker than a woman who smokes, YUK!!!
Call me oldfashioned but I prefer women who small all sweet and perfumey, not like nicotined-up hairy truckers.
I'm then put in the embarrassing position of having to cut our date short and make an excuse to leave, plus later fobbing off her phone calls and emails because I don't want to see her again.
So what do you advise to save time and trouble, should I bluntly ask a woman early on if she smokes, or would she take offence or what?
How do other blokes handle the dilemma?
I do have to say that the numbers for marriage and cohabitation have changed over the last year.Feminism is definitely much worse than Cancer nowadays which is why so many of us men are still single today, now that most women are real narcissists which they really believe they're all that. And most of these type of women have a very bad attitude problem as well. And they really are very mean to most of us single men today as well, especially when we will try to start a conversation with a woman that we think would be really nice to meet for us. And there will be times when these very pathetic women will even Curse at many of us men for no reason at all, and that just shows me how very awful and very troubled that most of these women are today. Now that they want equality, they really act so terrible to most of us men these days when there are many of us good single ones that are very seriously looking to meet a good woman today. Unfortunately they just don't exist anymore today at all.
Pretty simple as this. People like drama thoughIf women suck so bad, why are you so desperate for them?
I mean no disrespect, but you have an air of desperation around you. More importantly, women can sense that shit, and they hate it, at least until they get to know you. Anyway, I don't see how being single is evil. I would argue getting with the wrong person is the actual disease.
My ex from high school became an escort. I found this out when we came back from Georgia.Or prostitutes.
Don't forget the prostitutes.
The prostitutes are important.
Now, if this is the general state of women, then what does that mean for the general state of men?Feminism is definitely much worse than Cancer nowadays which is why so many of us men are still single today, now that most women are real narcissists which they really believe they're all that. And most of these type of women have a very bad attitude problem as well.
On second reading of your post, you are seriously engaging the same psychological projection that they are.And there will be times when these very pathetic women will even Curse at many of us men for no reason at all, and that just shows me how very awful and very troubled that most of these women are today. Now that they want equality, they really act so terrible to most of us men these days when there are many of us good single ones that are very seriously looking to meet a good woman today.
Marriage to a good person who may be from a more traditional society is better advice.If you're still a virgin, then (against my own religious views of which are opposed to such things) I'd encourage you to just get a prostitute and stop kicking your own head in.
Sorry about your friend.My ex from high school became an escort. I found this out when we came back from Georgia.
Even though I had nothing to do with her life’s choices I feel guilty cause I felt I could’ve talked her out of said job choice which eventually led to her committing suicide. She left behind a kid too
Do you seriously ghost chicks for smoking a cigarette?..
Why do you ask for advice when you already know it's your own stubbornness that's blocking you?Yup I'm very choosy in other ways too, for example I'd never take up with nonchristian women because I wouldn't be able get the nagging thought out of mind that the soft warm body i was hugging would one day be a heap of cold putrifying slime in a grave somewhere, or a wisp of smoke from a crematorium chimney..
The religion aspect I understand. But if a woman smokes she can smoke outside, she can use mouthwash, she can change her clothes after they get all smokey. In other words, don't nitpick your way out of a potentially amazing relationship.
When I hear the term "Succubus" mentioned, my brain says GO FOR IT.Mate, you can put up with her smokers cough, black lungs and polluted bloodstream if you like but include me out..
Like i said I'm very picky, for examp not so long ago a shop woman was fluttering her eyelashes at me like crazy and making sexy comments, but because she was a member of a local satanic Spiritualist Church I politely cold-shouldered her.
In fact she might have been a succubus in physical form who Satan tried to insert into my life to mess me up..
What kind of Christian are you? .. and i thought Christians from my home town were far from God but you take the cake and then some.In my younger days I tried going with prostitutes but it was so cold, loveless and unromantic that I soon gave it up.
For examp they wouldn't switch the light off, they wouldn't kiss, and had their TV going full blast during the proceedings..
Years later when I lived in the notorious red light district of Highfields, I had a protective father-figure attitude to them and used to nod hello on my way to the grocers, and buy them a can of pop or bag of crisps or sweets and they appreciated it.
Once two were standing on a street corner and one who didn't know me said to her pal "Is he a client?" to which she replied "No, a friend", which I take as a great compliment..
Once there was a knock at my door gone midnight and a sweet little weepy voice was calling my name "Mick....Mick...", and it was prossie Sue.
"A client just beat me up" she said, so I said "Come on in sweetheart, i'll put the kettle on".
After we'd had tea and a light supper I said "Darling you can have my bed and i'll sleep on the couch".
"You can get in with me if you like" she replied, but I made some excuse not to.
With hindsight I realise I should have got in with her just to cuddle her til she fell asleep, as a good cuddle was what she needed.