Have u ever been a single parent? It isnt fun or easy or some sort of perk/advantage. Neither is getting a welfare check (humiliating and barely enough to buy diapers/also comes with a work requirementonce that child is 6weeks old but dont worry they will pay for childcare so u can fulfill saod requirement) or fighting for the person who helped make your kids help to financially care for them (which contrary to popular belief most dont do willingly if at all and most child support awards are miniscule when they are actually paid anyway). Being primary custodian while not being completely financially cared for isnt some sort of advantage either, u have to juggle work and kids on your own while also taking care of school, drs appointments etc. Men who get to write a check and see their kids every other weekend have it far easier which is why i suspect mkst men dont even fight for or ask for more than that.
So if im raped while past out black out drunk by someone i previously turned down 500 times and clearly knew i wasnt interested - and your way of thinking prevails(as it already does) - whats to make someone believe it was r*pe? Or the rapist can just get away with it because what? Bitches lie? What makes you believe the woman just made a bad decision and regrets it when the whole process of acccusing someone of r*pe is set up to be as humiliating and difficult as possible? So much so that most women dont ever even report it.
There will never be a time in this society where there are no thieves or rapists so we have to take it upon ourselves to do our best to protect ourselves. That's reality. Reality isn't a place where I can make poor decisions and still be protected from the poor consequences that might come about.