The problem with people is they do not want to hear a solution to their problems. We all fall into this trap but getting past the walls of pain is the only thing which will make life better. It is hard to feel sorry for somebody who only feels sorry for themselves. There is a greed factor there where they force us to hear just their problems ignoring the fact that every poster here has some but deals with them differently. People here are not prudish but that is no reason to force nasty language down our throats in personal tirades. Using wise restraint is a learned skill and being polite is a trait we can all adhere to when discussing issues in a very diverse forum. We all go off on tangents at times and fall prey to bad behavior .
The blame game needs to stop for someone to get better. In Dan's case, he blames his mom among others but takes little personal responsibilities per his words. Plenty of people have changed their lives for the better with difficult situations. My understanding is the very mom he talks about is putting a roof over his head. Heck, I may be an alcoholic too if my children did not progress and latched on to simply giving up on life. I mean for every one person we see who has it better and causes jealousy there is one who has it worse than us. If you are breathing and alive, you have a shot in most cases.
The last time I checked, London is not yet a prison. In fact, the prison is in the mind for some who have gotten into lazy habits which simply blurs and passes the day. If you want to see how a person copes in life, throw them a curve ball. Their actions will prove if they are capable of realizing that while there is good and bad in all of us, if they can accept the flaws which come with the good in every person. Instead of blaming mom, Muslims, Christians or the like...think about if they too, can blame you for their situational days. Have you truly reached out to any of them and do you expect miracles when doing so? You mention Crowley but even he had a better life and did not consign himself to a self inflicted prison.
Some times, we have to man or woman up! It is not easy when we are battling the road blocks of the mind. One has to embrace the pain of getting better or quitting an addiction by realizing doing so will lead tor freedom or the end goal of feeling better. That is when we realize things are not that bad. If your life is a dung-fest you have to trash it and start building new habits. While it sucks at first, it is the only way to find sunnier days.
Enough excuses. If one can find this forum and complain about issues, they can find other sites which will help them gain employment. If you remove yourself from life and have a nasty attitude, people will always avoid you. Try seeing their issues before yours and you will see a change in the process of interpersonal relationships. You cannot just suck everybody dry by complaining about your personal issues. And P.S. - a vast majority of us do not like working jobs or some people we encounter. But, we deal with it.