Haich
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Actually @mecca , countries like my motherland (Somalia) many women are desperate for a husband as they don't have the means to escape the loop of poverty they're born into, especially in rural villages.
Thankfully, things are changing and the younger female generations are in education and some are even working but not everyone has the means to pay for school or university. So marriage is a form of escapism but also a lifeline for those stricken with poverty...
So in a bid to lessen the burden of their families, women marry young and sometimes marry older men as an older man is equated with stability and status. They also believe that a man who is already married has the experience and expertise to run a home, so they're more than willing to 'share' him if he's proven to the community, that his first wife and established family were a success.
Honestly, it's not common at all and of course the vast majority of people are either in normal marriages or happily single, but polygamy is still present in these communities which are alien to the westernised mind.
When we view things from a western mindset it's easy to dismiss how polygamy can help isolated communities. The truth is we're just up to ours in privilege and luxury we just don't have a clue how rotten things are for the vast majority of the world.
Thankfully, things are changing and the younger female generations are in education and some are even working but not everyone has the means to pay for school or university. So marriage is a form of escapism but also a lifeline for those stricken with poverty...
So in a bid to lessen the burden of their families, women marry young and sometimes marry older men as an older man is equated with stability and status. They also believe that a man who is already married has the experience and expertise to run a home, so they're more than willing to 'share' him if he's proven to the community, that his first wife and established family were a success.
Honestly, it's not common at all and of course the vast majority of people are either in normal marriages or happily single, but polygamy is still present in these communities which are alien to the westernised mind.
When we view things from a western mindset it's easy to dismiss how polygamy can help isolated communities. The truth is we're just up to ours in privilege and luxury we just don't have a clue how rotten things are for the vast majority of the world.