@mecca
Even though we have been on this forum for some time now, I have not had the opportunity to write to you very often (amazing considering the numbers of posts we have jointly produced!!!)
Here's how I see things.
Firstly, from my own standpoint I have a lot of friends and a wide extended family. There are many people whose company I keep who do not believe the
Gospel. Despite this, they still do lots of good things, treat each other fairly (most of the time), love their kids, work hard and stick to the speed limits ;-)
When I compare them to myself, I don't sit in judgement over them and consider them miserable specimens of humanity. They are people and they are all loved by God.
I remember when I first understood "holiness" in a way that I could articulate. I was painting a room that I thought didn't need doing but my wife had been on to me for a while and I finally gave in, bought the paint then set to work. The "white" ceiling I had been so happy with immediately looked a miserable yellowy-grey!
I'm sure you take my meaning - when we compare ourselves to one another, we can come to the conclusion that the largest part of our friendship group are great folk, (sure we are all human and have a few rough edges!) Outside that group we may know a few horrible folk who we wouldn't let into Heaven if we were God.
Another often touted phrase out of the Bible is "our righteousness is as filthy rags" - that's us on a good day! Going back to the painted ceiling, it's the same idea.
I don't know if you have ever tried to look straight at the Sun? You do it when you are a child sometimes then learn from the experience. It's
too much to take. I think in a way, God gave us the Sun to help us understand something about His holiness. We might like the light but how much of it do we
really want?! Imagine
living on the Sun!
The problem comes for us when our time here is over - what do you suppose Heaven might be like for someone who wants to turn up there in their
own righteousness? The picture of showing up to a top A-list party in a greasy overall comes to mind. It looked fine when you were with the lads in the garage but the setting makes you feel painfully out of place now.
Perhaps this helps explain the reasons why Christians try to get people to see that if they are going to be able to stand before God and have an actual eternal relationship with Him, they NEED a greater righteousness than can come from their own good deeds. There is SO much more to say on this - just read Romans!!
I have posted up various clips that try to explain the "why" of the Gospel that help things make sense to me. I'm sure you have seen me post
this one up, but just in case you never watched it, give it a couple of minutes and it might help you see what we are saying...