Do you know y Onan got punished? Hint its not for jacking it specifically.No, we don’t.
And I can come.to many happy hypothetical accomodations as to why Onan should have been so outrageously punished etc. But really none of them fit with a literalist reading of the bible.
And that always ends up in the same place, god knows, we don't, have faith.
I have trouble with that.