I understand where you’re coming from, but Sansa really? Who has she exactly stuck her neck out for?
Dany was on the backs of dragons in combat multiple times while Sansa hid in a tomb, and despite no training was fighting with Jorah after she crashed.
I would have been ok with mad queen thing but they should have fully committed to it earlier.
My bad, she hasn't lol. Though I think she showed more compassion or care at least in regards to northerners than Dany but that should have been expected. I don't find Dany complicated even in the books but rather living in her own fantasy created by her brother and strengthened by her dragons.
Sansa by comparison went through in a sense much of the same as Dany but seems to see the world for what it is as a woman rather than an entitled child with dragons to bolster her claim through fear. Sansa earned respect, while Dany demands it and Dany is right: the north will never love her. She's an outsider expecting things in a harsh environment where most earn and take care of their own but she thinks all she had to do was save them and it should be enough.
Dany isn't a military leader, she isn't a leader, she carries titles and entitlement around like badges of honor with her illusions of grandeur. She truly fights one time as everyone in Western should have fought the night king but that doesn't make her deserving of anything more than her life.
Because I see it as an alternate telling I think the pacing is allowed to be hectic and between the battle of Winterfell, losing Jorah/Missandei, she needed something to take her loneliness and push her to the edge. I think she truly would have been different if her brother hadn't abused her and she had met Jon under different circumstances and not as the rightful heir to Westeros. Everyone seems to want this right, this entitlement, but who outside of Jon and Vary's actually care about the realm?