ALL SIN IS EQUAL. THERE IS NO SIN THAT IS NOT COMMON TO MAN.
People like to wrestle with this hard, cold fact, but there's no dodging it. Lying, black magicks, abortion, r*pe, murder, the indulgence of pornography, suicide, lust, adultery, animal abuse, slavery- (I could go on). It's funny because all of these share one thing in common, and that one thing levels it all out.......
But people like to wrestle with this "sin." The like to throw around the word when they haven't given it much thought. They like to compare, contrast. Justify. lol. Sin is sin. Sin is not "bad" or "wrong" to me. It's something else, and has a lot to do with free will- which was designed by God. It was put within us. Sin has a LOT more to do with choice IMO. That's where a lot of the youth get confused because nobody tells them this. Sunday school teachers and parents just say "sin is wrong," and "sin is hurt people."
But... It's not that simple. It's not just right and wrong- there's the right way- and then an entire spectrum of the ALMOST right way- all the way to just wrong. That's why it's so easy to sin- because you have to decide out of countless options.
I believe that's why secular morality will always sound something like, "It only matters if your heart is in the right place," or "As long as you're not hurting anyone," because those are really tricky statements that validates the individual. Makes them feel good about doing what ALMOST right, validating the things that are ALMOST good, instead of just doing what's right.
So- back to that one thing that levels out all sin? Control. We try to control things- but we're not God. That's where people- especially the most evil ones- go haywire. They love to control shit. Think about it- you lie because you want to control the outcome of something. Humans are always fighting for control over their circumstances- only to find themselves knee-deep in even more circumstances.
The Lord sent Jesus to save us from ourselves. TO SAVE US FROM OURSELVES....... WE ARE IN NO WAY EQUIPPED TO CONTROL ANYTHING AS FEEBLE HUMAN BEINGS. WE CAN BARELY CONTROL OURSELVES. This whole morality thing is like a distortion filter imo.
I have my own theories about human nature and our relationship with God and "sin."
edit: I do not know if I am religious. But I know I have faith in Jesus Christ who saves me.
edit: i want to bring the "robin hood debate." Stealing is wrong- it's forbidden in the 8th commandment. Robin Hood tries to exercise control by stealing from the rich and giving to the poor- following his own moral code and justifying stealing because "the poor are needy and the rich are greedy," to hell with that... robin hood could have just become a farmer and handed out fresh fruit lol. I believe in the commandments... I've broken all but one- and nothing good has come from it.