I cant post a damn thing on any site whatsoever or i either get banned, someone gets too offended or the sites are generally filled with childish morons so you cant really post anonymously either anymore not when someonell read your post then make a separate post on your post then theyll continue to berate you for anything you say until they tire themselves out. i hate social media, i really do hate it. i hate how users online seem to drag shit out so theyre the ones that are overly dramatic but theyll make some other user out to be the wrong arsehole in every argument. whats the point social media sites are harvesting peoples energy so instead of folk being decent to one another arguments online are everywhere usually about small irrelevant minor things. you could say you dont like a certain pizza topping and someone somewhere would take it out of context.
im tired of how folk are so obsessed with social media yet they dont realise that they themselves add to the negativity that almost every site has so much of. i dont have energy anymore for online stuff, im no relevant online either, i dont get dozens of messages and i barely get attention from relatives and family if at all. conversations online are so one sided and emotionless that i feel like i often am messaging a brick. i often try to ask them more questions then the other person doesnt ask me anything or only asks the basic ones before the conversation finishes within a few minutes i feel like for folk i know who are abroad or the ones who live in other countries i dont know them as well anymore cause we dont talk long enough and my friend recently asked if i would chat with her on zoom of all things like if i was her actual friend she wouldve made more effort to visit me and i wouldve done so to her but nahhh i dont know when i actually last met up with her? and i have tried doing zoom quizzes but theyre awful.
friends too can sometimes be finicky two faced gits and i have had to either drop certain friendships or the friendship was never a genuine thing to begin with but how am i meant to make friends when folk dont message me first anyway. i dont get messages for months other than birthdays but i miss actually being given the gifts or cards by themselves too nowadays amazon or some website posts or sends the parcel to where we are. so it doesnt take much effort when they can google something and send it in the next day. boring. the problem is people have too many means of not using the thinking part of their brain, instead they can use google, have opinions be told them via the telly, so they dont have to think about any other opinions and instead theyll believe whats on the news and the telly.
its basically some users trying to bitch and snark on folk they dont like online then they often say shit like they didnt get offended when they did. i dont fucking know anymore but i do know society is a buncha morons really. we are all hypocrites for alllwing social media to exist then we are also hypocrites for using social media to begin with when its usually the users themselves who are negative in real life they then put so much negativity online too its hard to escape it really. i ahve read some pathetic things online that makes me honestly want to avoid social media but i cant because so many people are using it to vent their frustrations in their lives but thats what then starts the arguments and i was merely posting some shit that i thought surely some anons wouldnt overreact too it... low and behold they did. i really am started to give up on this "modern" society, it has the worst type of communication possible, folk get their phones out when the tellys on folk get their phones out when theyre talking to people folk have crap concentration skills because their phones take all their attention. i had a teacher pull their phone out when i was talking to them and yes i have done it as well in the past but not anymore i cant be bothered interacting with some folk because i know what i say will have to be repeated to them then theyll get in a huff when i complain theyre on their phone when im talking its rude!?!!!! well fucking listen then is it really that hard for some folk to do the basics in this day and age?
people dont know how to take jokes people dont recognise sarcasm online and in person people dont think logically anymore people are being dumbed down by these devices
i dont know why folk insist on overreacting to shit they read on a slab of glass either and i dont know why people seem to not know when a joke is merely a joke or a comment is not against them or anyone in particular. a comments a comment its upt ot hem with how they react to it. trust me i have tried almost every popular website but theyre all equally shit as each other. not to mention the whole upvote downvote thing makes their overreactions seem worse because it can feel like some users dislike your comments or opinions then other times some users might read or like your comments. its fucking inconsistent as shit.
the next few gens are honestly going to be screwed at this rate. i find it hard to have a decent conversation these days. both online and irl, people are just too screen addicted and they dont know how to stop picking up their phones and glancing at the screens either. then theres other screens which also takes their attention span and their concentration skills dwindle further because theres often multiple screens being used at once. its ridiculous. yet so many people always want the latest devices too then folk wonder why they fall ebhind in schools and shit then schoolwork generally is done on computers too. teachers wonder why students are on phones oh wait teachers are on their phones too so teachers dont notice what students are doing or not doing in classes.
im honestly close to giving up i havent the energy to keep up with societies demands to modernise so much shit. sometimes i just want something to be simple but its never simple. back in school we used to only take ipods cause that was our main means of listening to music besides the internet, but the internet has become moronically shit as have all the overhyped platforms that folk rely on for god knows what cause its a complete waste of our energy and effort. i dont know what else i would do though cause im shit at so much then most people are online some way or other i cant not avoid the internet.
in case anyone comments yes i know this is a long comment