Todd
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It's not a wish. I have lived it and have seen the fruits of it. With my own children. With an alcoholic with anger issues, a young lady caught in a string of abusive relationships, a couple headed for divorce due to irreconcilbe convictions about birth control (and 9 children!), with a gay man who was hurt and treated wrong by self-righteous Christians.The way you wish love to be expressed is laudable and I wish it would work.
To your last.
Hate is born from love.
The moment you create a love bias, you also create a hate bias that you apply to anything that would jeopardize that which you love.
If that which you hate can be deflected by loving ways, this is good, but if that which you hate continues to jeopardize that which you love, then reciprocity comes into play as fair play and the right thing to do is fight as dirty as required to protect what you love.
Regards
DL
Unconditional love always works. The problem is that most Christians are too self centered to actually go out of their way and show true unconditional love to a stranger.