Eh, regarding the creator of this threads first post, truly, God chooses who he wants as his servants-
lukewarm/cold Christians who do NOT repent will get cast into the lake of fire. Of course none of us are perfect, we have turned lukewarm and/or cold before but as long as we repent daily and continue serving the Lord and doing his will and having our hearts away from the world, we'll be fine. Christians who turn away from their faith are those God didn't choose, but rather wanted them to experience a relationship with him so that they can have the opportunity to know him, but because they later reject him- it's their fault and they aren't chosen. So that makes a fair Judgment, we all know God is just and fair so on Judgment Day, he will tell those people they experienced a relationship with him but they're also the ones that rejected him so they can't say they aren't guilty. People like to tell me that whenever I say this, it must mean I'm actually blaming God, but that isn't the case. To have a fair judgment, God must have us experience pain and pleasures and so forth so on that great and terrible day, we will be judged righteously by God himself. If we happened to kill each other, and God prevented it, thus having us not experience it, then it wouldn't be a fair judgment so that means we have to endure these trials and tribulations. This whole paragraph was me pointing out in conclusion that everything is planned, and if people leave God, then that is their fault, and they will stand before God.