There are 2 destinations. Eternal torment or eternal bliss. Which one we get will be decided by the choices we make here. As i said above, if you get into heaven whatever you want will be yours. If you want flying unicorns with chocolate lakes its yours. Assuming you have fulfilled what God has sent down.. which is basically the 10 commandments.
I myself like the story of 2 wolves
The more ya feed one or the other determines which grows
I refuse to believe that if I live as good,kind,and as loving as is possible for me
That I still burn in hell because my beliefs don't align with what the bible says
According to the commandments the minute ya envy someone your sinning and that makes ya bad
The mother n father thing so as I have said I came from a horrendous family and their church going and such lead me to believe for a long time that they do what they do because they love me as god says he loves children so much that anyone who harms them better watch out
My harm came for yrs no matter how much I cried out to god to make it stop
It was not til I got away from the church that my w/e ya wanna call it brainwashing ended
I was able to see the evil that so called Christians,Protestants,catholics
As we tried em all were actually perpetrating against their people
Imo as long as ya try to be good and do good its enough to move on to the next phase after death
Coming from someone who died more than once on a table
I know from my experience of non believer in the religions of any kind
That i am not afraid to die because I tried to live in a way
that I teach my children and if the world adopted would make it a better place
Treat others the way ya wanna be treated
We are all humans and have the same emotions
Chances are if ya do not like a way someone is treating you
that it would feel the same if you were to treat them that way
Voj
I agree with ya it makes no sense