arhur12
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Everyone handles trauma differently. K3y is pragmatist T@emin is idealist and 0new and jj0ng were more cynical. Cynicism makes you pessimistic, idealism is good but broken idealism leads you to the same path as cynicism. A pragmatist approach is best to survive in an industry like KPOP. K3y was heartbroken but knew like a real pragmatist that he had to move on if he wanted to survive in the industry. Moreover, I think how many outward emotions a person shows is not a good measure of how much broken they are on the inside. Crying is just one form of expressing your pain. Some people shut themselves off completely when something traumatic happens, other will try to drown themselves into work to distract themselves from reality and in the worst case we have those who turn to alcohol and drugs to cope with the pain. The Korean society is very competitive it's not an ideal environment for someone as sensitive as Jj0ng. You have to be thick skinned to survive in Korea's society. The idol industry is the worst because they want you to be perfect in everything.What about Key? He cried his heart out on camera. I would hope he's not just acting. He does seem to move past things easier and have a show must go on attitude. There was no one willing to listen to Jj0ng, not when he needed it. He was one of the most famous men in the world, and alone when he died. No one should die alone, or have to commit suicide because living is too painful. I'm going to read more about On3w's scandal and what happened with that.
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