Yes I was impressed by the kind of love and support he received from not only 5m but also his juniors and even regular koreans who served with him even armchairs tend to spare him from their wrath most of the time since he helped J1m1n gain exposure before bangtan became famous jj0ng doted on him too and always supported him with his problems this is a sign that he has some good left in him despite being in the satanic industry for so long which made people feel protective over him because you can win awards and get huge sales numbers while still being an evil person but you cannot win people's hearts. I love Ba3khyun but his fans need to chill out B@ekhyun probably didn't receive any goodbye or farewell note because he was going to social service from the start and Knetz would hate him even more they were already hating on him so much when he announced that he was going for social service and Ba3khyun is a huge T@emin fanboy himself so he would not be happy with his fans sending hate to T@emin like that. Tm is tougher than your average idol he survived one of the most hectic schedule of any idol in 2021 his schedule was hectic enough that I am pretty sure some more fragile idols would've had a breakdown just because of the amount of work but he managed to pull through despite suffering from depression and panic symptoms plus he went at the absolute worst time too when soldiers were not allowed any visits from friends or family due to covid laws and they were giving out very few vacations, military events were being cancelled so military probably felt more like prison if he had went pre or post covid he would've had it easier like O,M and K
You're right about the military it is common in all cultures there was a documentary they released D.P about the harsh treatment men go through in the military they said according to statistics 3 people die of suicide in korean military every single day and most of the times the military higher ups lie to parents and tell them that their son died protecting the country
If this is the norm for the average man it would be worse for celebs or pretty looking men and women too