- May 10, 2019
==================================I can't tell people's gender anymore
I AM WITH YOU 100% on this one!!! It is getting hard to distinguished between some males and females; both in entertainment and around us.
At my job alone, there are many people where some of us are unsure of their gender. While other people are mocking and degrading them behind their backs; I try my best to be understanding and get and understanding on where "ALL OF THIS" misinformation is coming from.
I have another co-worker from a previous job (very young - about 20yrs. old). She is a very pretty girl but is very tomboyish but a female otherwise. Another co-worker from this previous job was a female (still is) but got an operation on her busties and has been taking hormones for over 15 years. These hormones and her PSTD medicine along w/her seriously "delusional" and often downright overbearing demeanor; well, let me just say, that she brainwashed this girl into thinking she should get a sex change and told her to go by a boy's name.
Some of my co-workers from this job are homosexuals who went up against this sorta 'she-male" bully and told her to leave my dear friend alone and let her make her own choices WHEN and IF she is ready. Due to this BS, the young girl reached out 2 me and another co-worker about being bullied and wanted to commit suicide.
Fast forward; THANK THE GOOD LORD that she came to us and listened to us. We did not preach to this girl. Instead, we made her see and understand the pros and cons of her dilemma. AND that it was up to her and HER ALONE to decide how and when she would be (NOT FEEL BUT BE) ready to proceed w/whatever life choice she chooses. We also said we would stand beside her.
This friend and another girl and the bully ummm...well it hurts me to see them (even the damn bully) being made fun of and degraded by society because they look a bit more manly both naturally and through some modifications.
If anyone on this site or in this particular forum is reading this: PLEASE NOTE U ARE NEVER TRULY ALONE!!! It is NOT about what I or society thinks or dictates. IT IS ABOUT HOW YOU GO ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS w/out bringing disgrace or harm to others and yourself. <<<333>>>
I am glad my friend is alive and doing better. She has a bright future no matter what choice she makes in her lifestyle. I also know that many "so-called" Christians frown down upon this. Stuff like this is very subjective and touchy. As long they are NOT rapists, killers, in a cult, something worse or pedo's; I have no quarrels.
-Should I personally dislike or degrade someone based on their sexual preference?
-Should we as a society cast them away to the wolves for this?
I cannot speak for anyone else. I choose to "strongly dislike/hate the sin" and like/love the person for the person they are in their hearts and mind. But whom am I?? I AM NOT GOD, THAT'S 4 SURE!!!
And with so many celebrities BLURRING THE LINES...Our world is getting pretty fcuked up and scary. And when plastic surgery, hormonal meds, brainwashing and any other form of abuse comes to play; It is one HELL OF A VOLATILE CONCOCTION (if u ask me)!!!