My initial post was about incels and male entitlement. That's not what you adressed in your post, if someone is diverting matters, that's you.That is a whole different subject with entirely different context, do not deflect. I called you a misandrist because it seems you were acting like one. If I am wrong, okay, I have no problem taking fault and accountability- sincerely, my bad. But me thinking you have something against men still stands because you've already made like 2 or 3 threads and it's doing nothing but making me wonder.
I'm simply telling the truth, and debunking the myth that men become incels because they're rejected by women, while they feel entitled to women because of patriarchy. Instead of having a problem with this very real phenomenon, you seem to have a problem with me talking about it.
you recognize that claiming that white people benefit from white supremacy and sometimes abuse their power within the social hierarchy is not the same as claiming that you hate any individuals who happens to be white. Yet fail to apply the same logic when it comes to patriarchy and men.
your problem was with me saying men and generalizing. I told you you did the same with white people yet that deosn't mean you hold some ill will agst them, that's a completely valid point. Why is it that when we say men do xyz it provokes just extreme reactions like the posts that I got earlier on this thread wishing I take the vaccine and die. I don't owe you an explanation, not to mention you ask me questions about my personal life and feel entitled to an answer from me. We're all strangers to each other here. Maybe my previous post was defensive but that's because I've already experienced personal attacks, and don't want to open myself to further abuse.What is an incel?
Incels refuse to accept responsibility for their circumstances, instead believing their inability to attract women makes them victims of oppression. Like all groups under the umbrella of online misogyny known as the “manosphere”, they subscribe to the “red pill” conspiracy theory. They believe men are the true victims of gendered oppression, that male power has been usurped, and that feminism is a front to disguise men’s subjugation.
Incels essentialise this conspiracy in the idea of the “black pill”. To swallow the black pill is to accept that this oppression is insurmountable. It invokes a certain hopelessness. Incels believe there is nothing they can ever do to improve their lives.
Incels believe in a genetically essentialist social hierarchy. At the apex are “chads” – hyper-athletic attractive males who women desire instinctively. Beneath them are descending classes of “betas”. At the lowermost point are incels, whose innate characteristics make them unable to attract women.
Incels blame women for this hierarchy and their low place within it. The culture portrays women as irrational and emotional creatures who are blindly pursuing the biological imperatives to seek sexual satisfaction and material security through marriage.
Incels believe women select different men for these functions, marrying an inferior “beta” for financial gain whilst cheating with “chads” for sexual gratification. To incels, women pursue their interests sociopathically and will not hesitate to harm men. A society dominated by women does the same and incels see their oppression as a natural consequence of women’s malicious and inhuman nature.
so why do you have a problem with me generalizing then ? Have you met all white people to know for sure that they're all what you claim they are ? Obviously no, it's about systems. Systemic oppression is group oppression. It doesn't happen on an individual level. That's why I generalize when talking about privileged groups. Don't shoot the messenger.I did generalize because it's true.
Do not be mad at me for pointing out the truth about male entitlement either. I'm not mad btw, just pointing out your hypocrisy with regards to how you talked about white people, but feel I shouldn't be allowed to do the same with men. And honestly it's not even a question about good vs bad, every man benefits from patriarchy (just like every white person benefits from white supremacy). And since you're so intent on defending men, honestly, I can see that they're not completely at fault, women uphold the patriarchy too. In fact, as time passes, i can see that women are part of the problem even more so than men. Some of the biggest chauvinists I've met were women.Do not be mad at me for pointing out the truth. I do not dislike every white person especially not because of their color- which is what racism is.
I reported the poster who said she wishes I take the vaccine and die from it and messaged the mod but don't know if any action will be taken. I didn't answer to that person, because they're clearly psychopathic, I just try to block members whom I don't want to interact with. How miserable and evil must you be to wish death on someone simply because you don't like what they say.In opposition to that, I now understand you're only talking about bad men. You see, with the way you worded it, seems like you just wanted to rant about how "all of them" are bad, especially since you've made more than one post. Oh and also, I wouldn't want you to die for having your standpoint of things. I apologize on behalf of everyone who has threatened you on this forum. I for one have not seen anyone doing this to you though so I have to assume they directly messaged you. Report them and stay composed is all I can say, really.