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Vixy

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Hi girl, maybe she can try with Niacin ( inyectable niacin has betters results). Also, look an exorcist (is not a joke).
I dont talk to her anymore and I hope she leaves me alone but the probability of that is slim. Her mother talked alot of it being demonic when she was a child I remember but I guess they never had her delievered bc there are no such priests in sweden.
 






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I bolded the sentence there. We dont either but if we say that out loud in Sweden, we're called racist by the left so we cant say anything about the explosions or we're shunned as racists.

The latest explosion you can see here: https://www.msn.com/sv-se/nyheter/inrikes/en-gripen-för-explosionen-på-östermalm/ar-BBZd3ST?li=BBqxCu3&ocid=mailsignout

It was in the rich part of the neighbourhood in Stockholm, where fancy polititians and such live so now all of a sudden they investigate and have found surveillance tape of a suspect. LOL what about all the blow ups in the poor neighbourhoods? They dont care.
Oh God, I just saw the video you sent me and it was mortifying! Also, if I understood correctly, I had the text translated through Google translate and it said that the explosion could be heard from miles afar? :eek: I can't help but wonder what do they want to make out of it? If they don't care about the natives, why not care about themselves? Do they want to live under such circumstances? I can't imagine the ongoing fear you guys have to live in everyday, not knowing what else might happen tomorrow, this is dehumanizing :(

Exactly, most politicians are completely corrupt. They think they are above anyone else and that they have solved the problem (by their logic, as long as they don't see it, it is not there) by burdening the low and middle social classes. Omg, I don't get it, why are you deemed racists when you simply want to feel safe and secure in your own country? :( This is oxymoron on its own, and extremely fascist, don't they get the irony in that? I'm neither left nor right winger but I believe that these people certainly don't care not only about their country but the immigrants, they just care about misappropriating the EU funds for migration on the pretext of helping immigrants out. This is exactly what is happening in my country as well.Many of them have been called out and caught stealing money that was meant for the immigrants. So, they use them for their own interests.



Anyway I texted her Im ending our friendship and "no hard feelings" She replied she ubderstood and then that she had been bad at keeping in touch lol! (Its quite the opposite) She then said she thought we should go to the gym today and that she could pay me for it....sigh. Basically she doesnt get it and it trying to buy me off. I dont think there will be any difference, she seems to think I dont really mean it.
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I know that it wasn't addressed to me, but I can't describe you how proud of you I am rn. As a fellow empath, I know exactly how hard that must have been for you, and I know it takes courage, imo, your decision to end the friendship was a proof to yourself of how strong you truly are, even if you don't fully realize it at the moment. My psychology professor told us once that the most important and vital part of the therapy is when a patient understands the severity of the situation and decides to take action, even if they fail at first, it doesn't matter, because it takes self awareness and great strength for someone to be willing to deal with the issue in the first place and most people don't possess these qualities. In your case, you can't change or control your friend's behavior, but you certainly can decide and control how you are gonna act about it yourself and that's where the key to self discovery lies in. You took a great step and I know it will be tough, but please try to be as firm in your decision as possible, this person has done you more harm than good.
 






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Unfortunally you're right, both her mother and I suspect she is autistic aswell as the diagnosis of schizoaffectice disorder she has gotten. She was training the cat to go to the bathroom on one of those litter qwitter things but she went in super speed and I told her several times it takes weeks on just one stage but she acted like the cat should have learned yesterday when also in a completely new environment and with a new person.

Her mother suspected something was off I think with the cat scenario because she called the seller and told her she was mentally ill and couldn't care for a cat. I don't know how it went except she said she sold it so I hope it ended up in a better place, it was one of those naked cats that looked like a big rat, lol! Horrible! I prefer them hairy with big butts myself. :oops: I think she got it bc I have a cat and its my best friend and I always talk about it and tell about how I love it so she must have thought her life would be better if she just got a cat aswell, she is super easily affectable. Even her belief gets crushed if she's around nonbelievers, she says.

One thing bothers me through all the years.. I visited her in the psych ward once and we passed this goodlooking guy in the hallway, I told her he was hot and as we passed she asked him about the scar in his face. He squirmed and I could tell he was really hurt about it bc he was already in such a vulnerable position to be in the psych ward and to have shoved in his face he had a scar aswell was it for him, he didnt wanna be there and she just chuckled and didn't understand she had done wrong at all. My heart died alittle for him bc he did NOT need that too. I think then and there I cut the friendship off with her in my heart. That was just cruel. And she friggin CHUCKLED. So yeah, autistic I think bc she can do things like making enemies with her neighbour only to call him the next day asking him to pay for her lawyer to get her children back. I've talked to him on several occations (very pleasant guy) and he said "Look, I understood pretty quickly she was mentally ill" and then he told me she had called and asked that about the money like it was the most obvious thing in the world he would pay.

Completely surreal!

I've been so close over the years soo many times to telling her I really do think she is mentally ill, bc she has NO insight whatsoever. But she gets really angry when anyone even hints she might be so I backed down.

And the surreal behaviour.. My god. She told me once she had had an itch under her lip and as she bend up her lip to check, a chrysalis had popped out. Another time she came and said she had chrysalis in her blood.

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That is not autism. Lack of social awareness isn’t solely the domain of autism.
 






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Oh God, I just saw the video you sent me and it was mortifying! Also, if I understood correctly, I had the text translated through Google translate and it said that the explosion could be heard from miles afar? :eek: I can't help but wonder what do they want to make out of it? If they don't care about the natives, why not care about themselves? Do they want to live under such circumstances? I can't imagine the ongoing fear you guys have to live in everyday, not knowing what else might happen tomorrow, this is dehumanizing :(

Exactly, most politicians are completely corrupt. They think they are above anyone else and that they have solved the problem (by their logic, as long as they don't see it, it is not there) by burdening the low and middle social classes. Omg, I don't get it, why are you deemed racists when you simply want to feel safe and secure in your own country? :( This is oxymoron on its own, and extremely fascist, don't they get the irony in that? I'm neither left nor right winger but I believe that these people certainly don't care not only about their country but the immigrants, they just care about misappropriating the EU funds for migration on the pretext of helping immigrants out. This is exactly what is happening in my country as well.Many of them have been called out and caught stealing money that was meant for the immigrants. So, they use them for their own interests.



Anyway I texted her Im ending our friendship and "no hard feelings" She replied she ubderstood and then that she had been bad at keeping in touch lol! (Its quite the opposite) She then said she thought we should go to the gym today and that she could pay me for it....sigh. Basically she doesnt get it and it trying to buy me off. I dont think there will be any difference, she seems to think I dont really mean it.
:rolleyes:


I know that it wasn't addressed to me, but I can't describe you how proud of you I am rn. As a fellow empath, I know exactly how hard that must have been for you, and I know it takes courage, imo, your decision to end the friendship was a proof to yourself of how strong you truly are, even if you don't fully realize it at the moment. My psychology professor told us once that the most important and vital part of the therapy is when a patient understands the severity of the situation and decides to take action, even if they fail at first, it doesn't matter, because it takes self awareness and great strength for someone to be willing to deal with the issue in the first place and most people don't possess these qualities. In your case, you can't change or control your friend's behavior, but you certainly can decide and control how you are gonna act about it yourself and that's where the key to self discovery lies in. You took a great step and I know it will be tough, but please try to be as firm in your decision as possible, this person has done you more harm than good.
Yeah, it took me 7 years to dare to actually tell her out loud that I dont want to be friends. Chicken shit yes but this girls one crazy beach. :p Somewhere I'm hoping in time it'll sink in but her"lets go working out!" shows me it wont. she's too far gone to be able to respect other peoples wills.

I talked to the new congregation about it yesterday, they said that since she has been expelled from several other churches to not bring her into theirs which eased the burden on me bc now I have tried.

I do believe she will never be well and I do believe she will become worse and worse bc untreated psychosis breaks the grey matter of the brain down over the years, I can only imagine the brain damage she has now, she can't even do the dishes or keep her home clean. Last time I saw her she had dyed her hair orange, shaved her brows and replaced them with painted on lines. She actually LOOKED crazy and on top of that she dresses in jeans and the adds a skirt in deep need to be ironed on top of that.

I remember I saw somemone dressed like that and thought to myself "Well look at that, there ARE others who dresses like her, maybe it's okay after all then.." Seconds later I saw it was her. (Keep running into her, she's friggin everywhere) The thought of NOT having to say Hi next time is invigorating. Even if she grabs me -which she will. I will just keep passing like we've never met.

Freeeee.. I'll be FREEE! Bwaaahahah!

I feel like Richard Dreyfuss in the movie "What about Bob?" when he sits and plans his escape from this lunatic.
 






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I just though about another solution to your friend's or (ex-friend's) problem. If you can get the word to her mother or father and I don't know if there are acupuncture places where you live (I hope there are) but that would be a good alternative, unless needles freak her out. Or traditional chinese medicine would be another good alternative. I like gentle and yet powerful alternatives. It would be great if she could try both of these or at least one, the one she would be more comfortable with. She BADLY NEEDS something to help calm her spirit. I hope she can come to learn to pray and have a relationship with God so she can get some peace and calm in her life. Even though praying and being God's friend won't cure her, it would certainly help and make a GREAT difference.:)

She could also try learning meditation, try aromatherapy, going on nature walks or anything that keeps her calm (at least for a little while anyway).
 






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Yeah, it took me 7 years to dare to actually tell her out loud that I dont want to be friends. Chicken shit yes but this girls one crazy beach. :p Somewhere I'm hoping in time it'll sink in but her"lets go working out!" shows me it wont. she's too far gone to be able to respect other peoples wills.

I talked to the new congregation about it yesterday, they said that since she has been expelled from several other churches to not bring her into theirs which eased the burden on me bc now I have tried.

I do believe she will never be well and I do believe she will become worse and worse bc untreated psychosis breaks the grey matter of the brain down over the years, I can only imagine the brain damage she has now, she can't even do the dishes or keep her home clean. Last time I saw her she had dyed her hair orange, shaved her brows and replaced them with painted on lines. She actually LOOKED crazy and on top of that she dresses in jeans and the adds a skirt in deep need to be ironed on top of that.

I remember I saw somemone dressed like that and thought to myself "Well look at that, there ARE others who dresses like her, maybe it's okay after all then.." Seconds later I saw it was her. (Keep running into her, she's friggin everywhere) The thought of NOT having to say Hi next time is invigorating. Even if she grabs me -which she will. I will just keep passing like we've never met.

Freeeee.. I'll be FREEE! Bwaaahahah!

I feel like Richard Dreyfuss in the movie "What about Bob?" when he sits and plans his escape from this lunatic.
Yayyy, I can literally sense your joy coming out through my screen and you're already passing that energy to me, I'm so happy for you! Hahaha it doesn't matter how long it took you, but that you finally made it!
I believe she was either thinking that you don't really mean it because you always were there for her, or that she is going to change your mind by sticking with you no matter what, as she did in the past. Please, don't succumb to her whims.
It also amazes me how she managed to get expelled from so many churches, it definitely needs talent lol.

Exactly, you can't help someone that doesn't feel the need to be helped, she is too far gone to realize how she has ended up. She is expecting others to take full responsibility for her and her life, like a child. She does not get nor care about the fact that other people have their own problems as well and no time to deal with her constantly.
Omg how can she be physically everywhere all the time? Do you guys live nearby or she's just stalking you persistently?
Lol jeans and a skirt on top of them? She definitely never ceases to amazes us!Maybe she desperately cries out for attention (even if it be negative), either way, it's sad.

Hahahaha I'm quaking, you are riight!! You also reminded me of Dobby the House Elf in Harry Potter, when he says 'Dobby is free' hahaha I'm only joking ofc! :D


You may keep us updated on how it went with your friend eventually, if you'd like to. I sincerely hope everything goes well for you, may you have a great new start, along with people that always appreciate your value, bc believe me, you are worth more than you think <3
 






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I went by the police station today and had completely forgotten but they had their station blown up 2 years ago..



They've JUST restored it bc the explosives used was so strong, it blew out some of the foundation aswell so they had to rebuild all of the entrance.

Today I saw they must have had their cars trashed aswell because they have put up a HUGE electrical fence around their cars with alarms so its pretty obvious they're getting harrassed by the local criminals, aka the migrants. So it's really no wonder if someone comes in with a report of r*pe, they close it instantly. They dont have resources or time for such small crimes compared to whats going on.

Swedish police have now afmitted they cant handle the crimes and have asked for military back-up. Our polititians seem to declare the country is in a low intensity war with blow ups and crimes everywhere they cant handle. So, no point reporting anything unless its super huge. They dont have time running after a schizophrenic girl no matter what she does. The country has gone to shit.

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Yeah she isnt out for attention, shes not that type, she just has no sense of what goes with what, how to dress, how to look normal or how to keep a normal home, she's severely destroyed in her brain from going untreated for all those years. We're talking 30 years of untreated psychosis. No games..

She'll always be around knocking my door I guess but I'll just ignore it, sure it'll be super annoying and I'll probably wanna go out there to strangle her but she'll keep doing it and well, that'll be that. Can't talk to someone completely brain damaged. So the way I see it is that I've gotten the realisation I needed to get the hell out and therefore her getting any more respons from me, is over. Thus I am free.

Not really much for witchcraft movies so didnt watch that sequence but it doesnt matter, I. Am .FREE. :D :D :D
 






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I went by the police station today and had completely forgotten but they had their station blown up 2 years ago..



They've JUST restored it bc the explosives used was so strong, it blew out some of the foundation aswell so they had to rebuild all of the entrance.

Today I saw they must have had their cars trashed aswell because they have put up a HUGE electrical fence around their cars with alarms so its pretty obvious they're getting harrassed by the local criminals, aka the migrants. So it's really no wonder if someone comes in with a report of r*pe, they close it instantly. They dont have resources or time for such small crimes compared to whats going on.

Swedish police have now afmitted they cant handle the crimes and have asked for military back-up. Our polititians seem to declare the country is in a low intensity war with blow ups and crimes everywhere they cant handle. So, no point reporting anything unless its super huge. They dont have time running after a schizophrenic girl no matter what she does. The country has gone to shit.

OnTopic:

Yeah she isnt out for attention, shes not that type, she just has no sense of what goes with what, how to dress, how to look normal or how to keep a normal home, she's severely destroyed in her brain from going untreated for all those years. We're talking 30 years of untreated psychosis. No games..

She'll always be around knocking my door I guess but I'll just ignore it, sure it'll be super annoying and I'll probably wanna go out there to strangle her but she'll keep doing it and well, that'll be that. Can't talk to someone completely brain damaged. So the way I see it is that I've gotten the realisation I needed to get the hell out and therefore her getting any more respons from me, is over. Thus I am free.

Not really much for witchcraft movies so didnt watch that sequence but it doesnt matter, I. Am .FREE. :D :D :D
Wow, I am wondering how her parents let her out of their sight when her instability is literally through the roof. Why paying for her expenses and not have her move in with them? I think that is extremely irresponsible on their behalf since they know she is out there harassing people.

I'm more than glad to hear that! Once she realizes she won't be getting any responses from you, she will finally resign herself to that, it just will take some time. I also believe that a new place will offer you a completely new beginning and emotional security as well, your potentials will be endless, you deserve it! <3
 






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Wow, I am wondering how her parents let her out of their sight when her instability is literally through the roof. Why paying for her expenses and not have her move in with them? I think that is extremely irresponsible on their behalf since they know she is out there harassing people.

I'm more than glad to hear that! Once she realizes she won't be getting any responses from you, she will finally resign herself to that, it just will take some time. I also believe that a new place will offer you a completely new beginning and emotional security as well, your potentials will be endless, you deserve it! <3
Yeah they cant have her living with them, shes there for a week and then they beg her to go home again. Her siblings cant take her either.

Speaking of the situation in Swedens its escalated yet again:

The blown up house in the rich part of Stockholm is now invaded by thiefs that claims to be cleaners only to steal from the apartments:


Car fires for the second time in a row in Gävle:


Somalian gang suspected of robbing and beating a disabled person that couldnt move that well, they were set free:


And so on..so if you come and you get raped or beaten or robbed, dont expect the police to care.

:'( I'm actually getting scared now bc this is too much, it keeps escalating and escalating.
 






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Yeah they cant have her living with them, shes there for a week and then they beg her to go home again. Her siblings cant take her either.

Speaking of the situation in Swedens its escalated yet again:

The blown up house in the rich part of Stockholm is now invaded by thiefs that claims to be cleaners only to steal from the apartments:


Car fires for the second time in a row in Gävle:


Somalian gang suspected of robbing and beating a disabled person that couldnt move that well, they were set free:


And so on..so if you come and you get raped or beaten or robbed, dont expect the police to care.

:'( I'm actually getting scared now bc this is too much, it keeps escalating and escalating.
Yes, I completely understand that this a tricky situation, however, it is still extremely irresponsible of them imo, because they know that she is causing harm to other people. Her parents and siblings were quick to pass the back to others. If they comprehend her mental instability, why don't they put her into a mental institution, then? They must know that it will be for her own sake and the sake of others too.

Omg so many criminal cases, that is so depressing and infuriating!! When politicians will finally understand that enough is enough and citizens are dead sick of that situation? What's the opposition party doing for all of these issues? Guys, I seriously think that you have to hold a new round of elections. And omg, why that Somalian gang were set free? To further continue with their crimes uninterruptedly? This is unacceptable! :3
 






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Yes, I completely understand that this a tricky situation, however, it is still extremely irresponsible of them imo, because they know that she is causing harm to other people. Her parents and siblings were quick to pass the back to others. If they comprehend her mental instability, why don't they put her into a mental institution, then? They must know that it will be for her own sake and the sake of others too.

Omg so many criminal cases, that is so depressing and infuriating!! When politicians will finally understand that enough is enough and citizens are dead sick of that situation? What's the opposition party doing for all of these issues? Guys, I seriously think that you have to hold a new round of elections. And omg, why that Somalian gang were set free? To further continue with their crimes uninterruptedly? This is unacceptable! :3
Oh the mental institutions were closed back in the 90's. Since then our crazies walk the streets, live amongs the normies and yeah.. Thats part reason why our swedish society have gone down the hills. Theres nowhere to put them anymore. Sure there are small facilities for those who are so bad off they can hardly breathe on their own but thats it. The rest are out and they blame it on "oh the medications are so good now they can live like normal people" but NO they cant! They CLEARLY cant since they stop taking the emds and are out acting off again.
 






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You guys I have to tell you!

I just walked into her. There's this hill i have to pass to get home and she lives right up on it so I walked right into her. She shone up like the sun and went "Can I greet you?" I simply said loud "I have to go!" And walked off. LOL you guys, her face went from a smile to a :confused: I kept walking and I actually got rid of her!! YEI!

God I feel so strong, have ditched all the "friends" that were bad for me lately and its real damn invigorating! I've actually found a new christian friend aswell, he's an engineer, really intelligent and I can talk to things I havent been able to with them. Its weird too, sorry for those of you who dont believe, but I asked God for a friend, a REAL friend i could connect with two weeks ago and I've found people on here to chat with who seem perfect, like a heavenly match and that guy, whos my age aswell. This is crazy but oooh, it's just what I needed!
 






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Oh the mental institutions were closed back in the 90's. Since then our crazies walk the streets, live amongs the normies and yeah.. Thats part reason why our swedish society have gone down the hills. Theres nowhere to put them anymore. Sure there are small facilities for those who are so bad off they can hardly breathe on their own but thats it. The rest are out and they blame it on "oh the medications are so good now they can live like normal people" but NO they cant! They CLEARLY cant since they stop taking the emds and are out acting off again.
No... that’s not why. It’s because of the “least restrictive environment” and self determination. Unless someone is a danger to themselves or others it is not ethical or moral to keep them locked in a ward. There are slow release injectable antipsychotics, once a month, for people that fail to take their medications on a regular basis. I’m not sure why those aren’t used more, they should be.
 






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No... that’s not why. It’s because of the “least restrictive environment” and self determination. Unless someone is a danger to themselves or others it is not ethical or moral to keep them locked in a ward. There are slow release injectable antipsychotics, once a month, for people that fail to take their medications on a regular basis. I’m not sure why those aren’t used more, they should be.
Shes on them. Have been for over a year. Dont know about your country but they use them over here and to the point where she shakes. They overmedicate her, she STILL freaks out so its not working.

And yes, that's why they stopped institutionalise them in my country. "We can medicate them in their home" It was better with the institutions where they had jobs, friends, got taken care of and the mental place was self sufficient due to an apple farm so they didnt need any government funding.
 






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Shes on them. Have been for over a year. Dont know about your country but they use them over here and to the point where she shakes. They overmedicate her, she STILL freaks out so its not working.

And yes, that's why they stopped institutionalise them in my country. "We can medicate them in their home" It was better with the institutions where they had jobs, friends, got taken care of and the mental place was self sufficient due to an apple farm so they didnt need any government funding.
The least restrictive environment movement was worldwide. And some of the reasoning is what you stated. It’s cheaper and more humane to keep them home except in extreme situations where they pose a danger.

You said she doesn’t take her meds. If she was getting the shot that wouldn’t be possible.
 






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