That we all have to learn to stop allowing ourselves from being conned (by the adversary) into viewing the differences that currently exist between us (Adams and Eves /men and women) as reasons for being adversarial.What you said is true on its own but it doesn't really have much to do with what I was asking, no offence. I remember reading in one of your (or one your friends') posts that women are more carnal than men, that they do not love the way men do in terms of a selfless spiritual overcoming a selfish physical . . . Which is observably wrong in the real world most of the time. And that's been the case throughout history. So what's your answer to that?
Out of the two kids, you give the instructions to the one who is furthest along. Your concern is for the safety and welfare of both and your hope is that they will both follow it and be working together as a team, so that they will both be to able to successfully avoid the danger together and not steer the ship onto the rocks, but both make it back to the safe haven and in one piece.
The one that is furthest along is handed the instructions, because they have the best chance of being able to cope with the responsibility that comes with it, but it is still a partner-ship.