llleopard
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There is a man in our church who is consistently rude to both rhino and me. If either of us say hello, he turns away and blanks us. If I ask him a question after he preaches, he won't answer. When I preached yesterday, he was eye rolling and giving very negative body language. Etc
He does talk to others in the church, runs a home group, and has a job with people, so I know he's able to be sociable. I have no idea what the problem is, and it's bewildering. I want to ask whether we have offended him somehow and if it can be put right. Or if there is something about us that puts him right off (like being re-married or something) I know rhino thinks the situation is ridiculous, and would rather just let the guy stew and get over whatever is, but I would like to clear the air if possible. Any suggestions on a correct way to approach the situation? If rhino doesn't want to, I may need to just let it lie anyhow!
He does talk to others in the church, runs a home group, and has a job with people, so I know he's able to be sociable. I have no idea what the problem is, and it's bewildering. I want to ask whether we have offended him somehow and if it can be put right. Or if there is something about us that puts him right off (like being re-married or something) I know rhino thinks the situation is ridiculous, and would rather just let the guy stew and get over whatever is, but I would like to clear the air if possible. Any suggestions on a correct way to approach the situation? If rhino doesn't want to, I may need to just let it lie anyhow!