I don't think I ever made it seem like bullying is Ok. I think I've showed the opposite, that it's ok to be real. Am I the perfect model for positive behavior? Probably not, but I highly doubt anyone really is. I'm not here to give speeches, or analyze everyone. Because why? Like I said picking battles is important.
If you only worry about what you can control, you have less worries. I can't control what people think, and figuring people out is mostly irrelevant information. That's why my strategy is to put on a show, and put myself in that "game". When you set examples in that fashion, background noise is tuned out. You can focus on your goals and putting on the next show.