I think this is a conversation worth having. I'm wondering about a few things.
If you are trying to apply the same controlled exposure with abuse, to exposing abuse. I just don't see why that's bad. What we are saying is that we are trying to promote ending abuse. People getting used to ending abuse isn't bad. This is like using the enemies own weapon against them. Obviously I get that two wrongs don't make a right. But I really do feel like this is where we are at as a species.
We literally can't get anything done without this sort of stuff. If we keep letting people turn victims into the bad guys we get nowhere. This is what needs to be done, and I'm sorry if people can't see it. We are living in the midst of the biggest racket ever. Like we have long given up on fighting fair.