You're absolutely right that it's not all families being split up, that it's not all toddlers being confined, that there are criminals and child-traffickers among them, trying to exploit the children in their company. All of that is true, and I don't debate it. But there ARE toddlers among them, and some of those toddlers have been separated from their mothers or fathers, possibly permanently. America is actively incarcerating toddlers for indefinite periods while intentionally separating them from their families for equally indefinite periods as a matter of policy. This is new, this is true, and this is obscene.
Why is it obscene? The children are taken care of. What do you think happens to children when their parents go to prison? Are they left at home to fend for themselves? Do they go to prison with their mom or dad? No. They are either placed in foster care, or with relatives. That is exactly what's happening with toddlers who are brought through the border illegally, and since most of them aren't with their parents in the first place, the incidences of them being taken from their parents at the border are relatively few.
Between October 2017 and January 2018, according to the border patrol, 14,444 unaccompanied children were apprehended, most from Guatemala, Honduras, El Salvador, and Mexico. These are children whose parents paid $5000-$10,000 to human smugglers who take their children to the border and essentially drop them off, like it's daycare. What do you propose is done with these children?
You keep saying this, and it's a bit bewildering, particularly as I'm not well versed in American border-law. Are you saying if folks who are caught across the border illegally are apprehended, they at any time can say 'alright, alright, I'll head home' and be released to head in the opposite direction? Some kind of 'Go on, git!' clause in the law? It sounds unlikely to me. Or are you simply saying a willingness to risk incarceration is a willingness to be incarcerated?
The only reason they are being held is because they are claiming asylum. If they give up their claim and choose to return to their country of origin, why reason would there be to continue to hold them? If the US locked up every foreigner who tried to enter the country illegally, they would run out of room pretty quickly. If illegals don't request asylum, they are free to go within 12-24 hours.