Children as young as 4 should engage in sexual play

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Did you read the article? The ACTUAL article?

I thought it was weird when I was 19 and my one year old nephew was laying on the couch touching his privates. It WAS weird. It was also normal.
 

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Did you read the article? The ACTUAL article?

I thought it was weird when I was 19 and my one year old nephew was laying on the couch touching his privates. It WAS weird. It was also normal.
Yes I read the article. Why do you think I asked you the question regarding why some kids develop certain tendencies more than others.

My prior point was responding to the thread title before I read the article
 

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The article should read "kids as young as 4 should be encouraged to learn how to be kind to others" or "encouraged to learn how to take care of the planet"
Start kids out with this "innocent sexual play" and you don't know which of those kids is gonna end up addicted to porn, or being a sexual deviant/predator when they grow up. Not EVERYONE will turn out "ok" from such experiences.

Seriously, WAYYYYYY too much focus on the topic of anything sex. No wonder people don't know how to take care of the planet, only care about themselves and pleasing and satisfying themselves. So may people are concerned about sex instead of learning valuable skills in life like how to respect others, be kind, be smart, do nice things for others, volunteer, or just acquire wisdom and learn how to be good to the planet and people.
 
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Did you read the article? The ACTUAL article?

I thought it was weird when I was 19 and my one year old nephew was laying on the couch touching his privates. It WAS weird. It was also normal.
Not normal. The world has set a "norm" that in reality is not normal. That kid should have been reading a self-improvement book or material that will build his character into a great person.
 

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At one years old? That would have been amazing and absolutely not normal where as what did happen though weird to me was developmentally normal and only sexual through the lens of an adult who’s been programmed to think anything involving genitals is automatically sexual when it’s not
 
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I just love how people who think they have a monopoly on reason and logic and rely on “just the facts ma’am” engage in extreme fear mongering and distortion of the facts at every available opportunity. The hysteria in this thread proves that these people are ruled entirely by their emotions and contort reality to fit their world view.
 

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It saddens me that people who take the time to criticize others don't do much in the positive department or have a sense of right and wrong.
 

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That’s actually not what it says... what it does say is that they often DO and that it is developmentally normal, which it is.
Aaaand the leftards have arrived! :D ofc you guys think that kids should have sex with each other..thats your ways. Fits right into your demonic agenda, doesnt it? Haha..you're such losers.
 

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Let's see what the text itself says. Here is an article with some excerpts:

UC Santa Barbara Says 4-Year-Old Children Should Engage in ‘Sexual Play’

The sociology department at UC Santa Barbara published a website that argues that children as young as four should engage in “sexual play.”

A bizarre site published by UC Santa Barbara argues that children from ages four to seven should engage in “sexual play.” “Sexual play,” as defined by the site, refers to acts as innocent as “playing house,” and as sexual as the touching of their peers’ genitals. According to the site, parents should not react negatively if their young child decides to explore the genitals of another child.



Sexual play during this age often mirrors the dominant heterosexual social roles assigned to women and men, including playing “house” and assigning a “mommy” and a “daddy.” This play is motivated by children’s curiosity involving social interaction, societal roles, and the bodies of others. Children see how their parents and other adults act and mimic what they see. Children might display affection to their friends by hugging and kissing, or touching each other’s genitals, which is perfectly normal. Parents should not react in a negative way because children are just exploring. Sexual play between children can cause harm if the acts are non-consensual or hurtful, in which case parents should intervene.

The site emphasizes that parents should embrace their children’s sexual play, including their “consensual sexual activity.” The site argues that reacting negatively to such behavior could teach them to associate sexual activity with feelings of guilt.



It is important for caregivers and parents to keep their reactions to children’s consensual sexual activity and play positive. If a child is told that these activities are “bad,” he or she may learn to associate sexual activity with feelings of guilt. Children may carry this guilt with them into adulthood, which can negatively impact their sexual lives.
As you said, Eta; They start with this and keep progressing it into not only accepting p***philia (which started a LONG time ago) but to think it's the new thing. There are actually groups of pedophiles that says "It's not a bad thing" and they urge to be accepted for their perversions. So yeah..this will happen. Thats how it goes, step by step society accepts evil deeds. The first step was to accept sexual immorality as in sex outside the marriage, then it went to having children outside the marriage, then to homosexuality and now this.

And then the leftards in here will buy it all saying "Yeei, this is so great!" See how they're already starting by defending it?

This is evil in the next step.
 

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Why don’t you just post the actual website? With the full extent of what it says? Would that hurt your case? Yeah it would.

I study child development and work with children for a living. Going on two decades now.. sexual exploration and play is DEVELOPMENTALLY NORMAL at very young ages and very much not what you are making it out to be. It isn’t even actually sexual, just includes the sex organs so is called that. Kids explore - themselves and are curious about others - they are curious about everything. It’s innocent and it’s normal, whether you like it or not. No ones talking about a four year old giving blow jobs. That isn’t what is being said. But a four year old may touch their own genitals and they may be curious to touch others and the way to deal with that to ensure continued NORMAL DEVELOPMENT isn’t to freak out and shame them.

That’s all the website said. Literally.

The words children SHOULD aren’t even involved at all
Hey I didnt know you were into kiddie porn! ..You still surprise me! :D
 

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Jesus Christ some of you are incredibly ignorant...

Do you have any experience with children? Asa parent caregiver ANYTHING?

Have you studied child development? Been paid to assess children to determine if they are developing normally? Anything?

Kids touch themselves. It isn’t “sexual” it’s just curiosity. Hell my nephew used to lay on the couch touching his penis when he was a baby, half the time I try to change my daughters diaper she thinks it’s funny to put her hands down there, kids when I was in grade school played doctor, my male cousins compared their dick size when we were younger than ten... all of the above are completely developmentally normal and understandable. There is nothing shameful or wrong with the behaviors or with stating that the behaviors are normal.

How you handle them as a parent or caregiver influences how the child reacts and continues to develop for the rest of their lives. It is ADULTS with their own weird sexual hang ups that turn INNOCENT CHILDREN into sexual objects when their behaviors are simply exploration and curiosity. They aren’t SEXUAL. Even a baby with a hard on isn’t sexual, it’s just a physiological reaction to stimulation of a body part that has a ton of nerve endings. You guys are nuts.
LoL what a stupid argument! if one has to be a parent to see hata going on here, one's truly messed up! And its also an argument to your own diadvantage since you dont have any kids of your own, do you? So that means according to your own argument YOU dont know, haha!
 

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I don't... but ok.
Yeah you do. You've clearly shown that on the forum. Every. Damn. Day. You're bought into their lies its ridiculess, they say Jump and you say "How high?"
 

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Jesus Christ some of you are incredibly ignorant...

Do you have any experience with children? Asa parent caregiver ANYTHING?

Have you studied child development? Been paid to assess children to determine if they are developing normally? Anything?

Kids touch themselves. It isn’t “sexual” it’s just curiosity. Hell my nephew used to lay on the couch touching his penis when he was a baby, half the time I try to change my daughters diaper she thinks it’s funny to put her hands down there, kids when I was in grade school played doctor, my male cousins compared their dick size when we were younger than ten... all of the above are completely developmentally normal and understandable. There is nothing shameful or wrong with the behaviors or with stating that the behaviors are normal.

How you handle them as a parent or caregiver influences how the child reacts and continues to develop for the rest of their lives. It is ADULTS with their own weird sexual hang ups that turn INNOCENT CHILDREN into sexual objects when their behaviors are simply exploration and curiosity. They aren’t SEXUAL. Even a baby with a hard on isn’t sexual, it’s just a physiological reaction to stimulation of a body part that has a ton of nerve endings. You guys are nuts.
You are extremely arrogant and is showing no respect at all for others believes, even taking the lords name in vain right in front of us. I heard you're sick but dont take your anger out on other people who didnt do anything to you.
 

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The article should read "kids as young as 4 should be encouraged to learn how to be kind to others" or "encouraged to learn how to take care of the planet"
Start kids out with this "innocent sexual play" and you don't know which of those kids is gonna end up addicted to porn, or being a sexual deviant/predator when they grow up. Not EVERYONE will turn out "ok" from such experiences.

Seriously, WAYYYYYY too much focus on the topic of anything sex. No wonder people don't know how to take care of the planet, only care about themselves and pleasing and satisfying themselves. So may people are concerned about sex instead of learning valuable skills in life like how to respect others, be kind, be smart, do nice things for others, volunteer, or just acquire wisdom and learn how to be good to the planet and people.
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@Vixy this is the precise ignorance I am talking about. Please get a handle on yourself. There is nothing satanic about acknowledging facts about normal childhood development. There is nothing devious about living in reality. The website in question does not say what the op claims it says, I posted it in full earlier so you can see for yourself. And there is nothing wrong with what it actually does say.

I have two children, thanks. 7 nieces and nephews and an almost two decade long career working with kids. No you don’t have to be a parent but some exposure to actual kids wouldn’t hurt.

Some of you seem to just have knee jerk reactions and care little to nothing for actual facts or truth.
 

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Hahahah, he says as he LITERALLY believes what the media is falsely telling him.
So you too are on the "let's normalize
the sexualization of children" brigade?

I already specified multiple times that I posted the Breitbart article specifically for the excerpts. I don't know what media besides some VCF articles are discussing the elite p***phile agenda.
 
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