I've been silent for a while now after a particular user who made a indirect remark at my comment, (which I can see started this entire little spat) and here's what I think:
Ta3hyung is a very rich member of BT5 who has access to the best mental health services and health care in Korea. He is, when it comes to money, is in no way struggling. If he is being mistreated, then he deserves better as any human does. If he is lying and using the 'mothering' instinct as Boti said in another comment to bait his fans, then the fans deserve better. And if you believe satanism is involved, well I think we know by now this opinion is accepted on this thread. Throughout the internet, if you mention satanism many fans attacked us, which is why we had to make a thread here. This is the only place on the internet where fans can talk about BTS and their true feelings without being attacked by armies who wish to bring them back into the fandom or call their religious beliefs on the certain symbols they keep seeing in all of these videos crazy.
Whatever belief you hold is simply an opinion and that's something we will not know the truth of because the company known as Big H1t have been playing on this depression of 'ta3hyung' and is now possibly captialising on it. Fans, concerned parties and haters alike should be a little concerned on the tactics these kpop companies use to play on the sympathy + empathy of fans, many of whom have mental health issues and have said in forums and openly how they use BT5 to help them with their mental health state, yes you can already see how this could be very dangerous in the long run. B1g h1t especially uses fans, especially the sensitive fans (sensitive is a good thing btw) and bait and switch them constantly with roller-coaster like emotions. Some members aren't exempt from this blame (e.g. 5uga baiting his fans with lyrics/words from a man who committed suicide) but we know for the most part b1g h1t is very complicit in allowing this content to come out too.
However the problem is here that intense hate and love for BTS are both problematic. Both are signs of attachment to a figure who, there's a high chance none of us will ever meet, know, or be able to help directly, and it may hurt us mentally in the end even overthinking about it. And mentally speaking, over-relying on such a distant figure can cause MORE mental health issues if suddenly they are not there, or turns out to be someone who is completely different than we imagined them to be.
Many users here I think are falling into the dangerous trap of being too in love with a particular figure and feeling they need to 'save' him from trouble, but sadly this very feeling could be a psychological trap B1g h1t has laid, this point Boti made I must agree heavily with.
You can pray, perhaps write about your initial frustrations in a journal, even talk it out here a little, or even take a break (as one user said they needed to do here - and I would say go for it!) - however, please do not attack any members of the forum here and then be shocked when you get a predictable response.
This thread has derailed heavily in the last few pages or so into, well I think all of you can see, and that's not what this thread is about. Some great users have taken the hint and returned back to posting great content again and I thank these users for attempting to get the thread back on track (which is about theories, discussion, thoughts, opinions, personal struggles with being a former fan, and just content about bts from neither a fan nor a hater).
Please apologise when you use such language or indirect remarks and reconsider your words, or simply move on - we do not hate you but don't do the things you accuse others of and then talk as though the other users are guilty. This is heavy projection and I hope the user in question understands the problem lay not the users on the thread at all.
Also I don't like the Boti thread too much either at times, but at the very least Boti has stuck to the topic throughout their entire thread and provided much useful information.
Fans come here, like I did a year ago to get some consolation, information and move on from being attached to BTS, to simply observing and learning without attachment about the industry, other idols, and also perhaps even move on altogether.
Some other users are also pegging this behaviour on and saying they will 'defend' the other users, and I ask you kindly, especially since some of you say you are muslim, to please stop this group mentality and be kind to other users. We all came here from different backgrounds for one common purpose, we can always agree to disagree at times, and then move on.
(Also just a pet peeve I have with formatting, if you need to reply with 5 to 4 users, you can do so in one comment, it's possible to do such a thing)
I would say most users here did contribute well to this thread, however perhaps due to lack of content the information has become stale. This is why I pointed users to specific parts of this thread with information worth checking out so they know where to go to start, especially to new users looking for the right content to start with. I hope I didn't offend anybody and apologise to those I did. I am usually a lurker and only speak if there's major things not being said, or in this case, the current problems the thread has been facing which has not been resolved.
Let's try to move on from this and get back on track inshallah.
I am here because i feel tired after listening Bts.There is something strange in them...i can't stand the music and at the same time they are interesting.But i am trying to be rational,and to have my opinion because their fandom is crazy and illogical.I don't find them the best artists of Sk...i think they are very overrated....Jk is Bang pd favourite...Jimin has no personality,J hope is very fake with his sunshine attitude...i have no idea about Yoongi and Namjoon,but my favourite are Taehyung and Jin.Taehyung is the most powerful,and Jin has something that catches me.But if Taehyung gives me a good impression,Jin seems too much clean,too much bright...and i read he was discovered by Sm but he refused it...why he refused Sm?In Bighit he is mistreated,he sang not so much.This is weird.