What we were so used to love when we were youngers always change when we grow up. Of course there will be exceptions. But for most of people its like this. Maybe he wants to do others things and he can't. Wonder what it could beYeah its exactly that! Its just like some random job that it has to be done, with no licking to it, and its sad also, when u were forced as a child to do shit, its maybe something he wanted to do in the biggening but now he really dont have a choice, Even if he still wanna do it, he's way too controlled to do anything of his licking.