- Dec 2, 2019
Why should you end your friendship? She trusted you enough to come out to you. Do not betray her trust. Also, if she is coming out to the whole school, she will need her friend for moral support. Be that good friend. You don't know how scared and stressed and alienated she must be feeling. Pls don't ditch her at her most crucial hour.Hi, Everyone. Sorry to disrupt the discussion but earlier today I went on facetime with My friend Aoma. She's a new student in our school and since I'm very open with people we've become close friends. Our classes are separated by girls and boys so my class is full of only girls. In facetime, she confessed that she was trans and that she used to be a boy. She told me what surgeries she had gotten. She said she got a uterus transplant and she removed her penis and made it into a vagina. She said she didn't get surgery to change her body shape and that she did it naturally. It must've been easy for her to transition since her shoulders aren't that broad at all. Her face is pretty feminine (like her body) so if she hadn't told me I wouldn't have known. She says next week she'll tell our whole class.
I need advice with this situation. I don't know whether to end this friendship before we get closer or leave it. I really need advice because it feels so wrong being friends with her. Aoma is a very caring person and I don't want to hurt her. Please, state your opinion about this everyone.