- Jun 9, 2019
If we base our opinions on what we see gays doing on YouTube, we'd just be stereotyping and lying to ourselves. James Charles and other gay celebs are the worst depiction of lgbt community. James is one of the disgraces of our society, just like everyone like him. Irl most gays are not like that. They dont wear fishnets and walk around with rainbow makeup on a daily basis, asking to suck every dick on existence. They are normal people. If you want REAL gay icons, follow those like Jim Parsons, married to the love of his life for many years now and one of the few celebs that are down to earth and dont flaunt their sex life at any chance they get. Many more gays than you assume are like him. Trust me.gay men always have their eyes on hot guys, i dont know about you but i dont think gay guys are that loyal to their partners, gay girls are extremely loyal, i can see and feel that, but gay guys have a tendency to drool over other hot guys and always have sexual fantasies with them (but thats from my personal experience) so gay guys are definetly perverted, thats why i dont like gay guys sometimes, but bisexuals or other sexualities doesnt give off that "james charles" vibes (not the thing about him turning straight men to gay, but the thing that he always drool over straight or hot guys and always have sexual fantasies with them and tries to get their attention and flirt with them 24/7), though i know some bisexuals who sometimes gives off that vibes but not as much. gay guys are untrustworthy imo.
Ofc there are going to be problems like that. Gay marriage legalizing is a millenial thing, and people are still getting used to it, even gays. No one has enough experience to act on such new situations that come with the liberty.Monogamy in the strictest sense is not as common among gays as it is among heterosexual and lesbian couples. You will find that many of them still indulge in group or anonymous s** despite being in “committed” relationships. Their explanation: S** and romance are two separate things. So cheating is only when you get emotionally and physically involved with someone, not if you have a one night stand, eapecially if your partner is aware of it, even worse you do it together. I have heard too many accounts of gay couples indulging in group s** together as a couple with other men. HIV/STD statistics don’t lie, they are much more prevalent among men who have sex with men regardless pf labels. Receptive anal s** itself is a very risky, it can cause damage to your rectum and transfer a lot of deadly organisms. Just think about how painful it can be to be constipated, let alone have foreign objects inserted in a place meant for defecation. It is simply not anatomically developed for this purpose.
People think that gays don’t care about youth and beauty, but they do in fact and way more than married/coupled straight people. They are men after all and visually stimulated. That is why a lot of them suffer from body dysmorphia and and have an inherent fear of aging. 50% of gay men over 40 are single and have a hard time finding a life time partner because they get shunned by their own community. And many of them, not all tend to be quite bitchy and mean, not only to others but to each other. Depression, suicide and other mental problems are much more common among gay and bisexual men, even in places where gay marriage is legal and celebrated like where I live.
But the thing we forget is, this is not some new age revolution. The history is just repeating itself. Straight people had it the same way with this when divorce was legalized last century. People started divorcing like crazy. There was outrage, society was being called immoral and degraded. Then promiscuity, drugs, experimentation and depression followed on the 80's and 90's. Many people started seeing sex as sth casual and liberating. More and more people looked for hookups and carpe diem adventures. Its normal. The more freedom, the more problems. People dont know what to do with it sometimes.
But should we call most straight people that lived in those times promiscuous, immoral and crackheads ? Absolutely no. All I'm saying is it doesn't matter the sexuality, some people will always be more promiscuous than others, no matter the conditions. Its just a revolution of freedom gives them a better way to do it.