makeorbreak
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An article I read today said that bromances are becoming more open with the spreading acceptance of homosexual male couples in public. Because men are less worried about being labelled gay when they are out with their best buddy, they are sharing more openly emotionally with them; these scenes of public displays of affection can be easily construed as a couple thing, not just two buds who are close. That is not to say this is necessarily something which has to be stopped but straight women have every right to be concerned.
If a man feels comfortable sharing emotionally with his best friend, they become even closer and that may be all he needs to be emotionally content. He does not need a girlfriend for his emotional needs but he will still want a girlfriend for the physical side of a relationship. Both he and his buddy can have girlfriends on a rotating basis to meet their male sexual needs but neither will feel the need to open up to their girlfriends at the time about their emotional concerns.No relationship, straight or gay, can survive without an emotional connection and this creates a situation where straight women can only look forward to physical relationships with their boyfriends without the emotional connection which might lead to marriage.
In effect, women don't only have to worry about losing the guy they want to another man because of his homosexuality but also to watch as that man is taken off the market even if he doesn't want to bed the other man. All that's left to them is to be relegated to the position of mistress and never wife.
If a man feels comfortable sharing emotionally with his best friend, they become even closer and that may be all he needs to be emotionally content. He does not need a girlfriend for his emotional needs but he will still want a girlfriend for the physical side of a relationship. Both he and his buddy can have girlfriends on a rotating basis to meet their male sexual needs but neither will feel the need to open up to their girlfriends at the time about their emotional concerns.No relationship, straight or gay, can survive without an emotional connection and this creates a situation where straight women can only look forward to physical relationships with their boyfriends without the emotional connection which might lead to marriage.
In effect, women don't only have to worry about losing the guy they want to another man because of his homosexuality but also to watch as that man is taken off the market even if he doesn't want to bed the other man. All that's left to them is to be relegated to the position of mistress and never wife.