Red Sky at Morning
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A wife spends an afternoon at the shops and comes home with a floaty black dress that she thinks looks chic and exudes understated class. The fabric is soft and it’s comfortable and light.
Trying in on after dinner, her husband, (still wearing his ten year old tie from the office) looks her up and down as she displays her purchase...
“You look like you are wearing a black bin bag - what were you thinking?! Why don’t you dress like Jane - she picks some great outfits, but I guess she is slimmer than you”
Hurt, she goes upstairs and looks at herself in the mirror. Her husband may have a point... but look at him!
How dare he say those things to her - after all, does he really think he is “love’s young dream!?” She puts “Beautiful” by Christina Aguilera on her earphones and builds the wall of resentment about the thoughtless oaf downstairs a little higher.
Of course, nobody here would be like the rude husband over the dress... so why are we sometimes so heavy handed with people when it comes to spiritual things? When we speak to others, do we think about how we might receive those comments if they were made to us?
In a “word to the wise”, Paul, in Ephesians 4 talks about the way we should interact with one another and the spirit in which we should do so...
Trying in on after dinner, her husband, (still wearing his ten year old tie from the office) looks her up and down as she displays her purchase...
“You look like you are wearing a black bin bag - what were you thinking?! Why don’t you dress like Jane - she picks some great outfits, but I guess she is slimmer than you”
Hurt, she goes upstairs and looks at herself in the mirror. Her husband may have a point... but look at him!
How dare he say those things to her - after all, does he really think he is “love’s young dream!?” She puts “Beautiful” by Christina Aguilera on her earphones and builds the wall of resentment about the thoughtless oaf downstairs a little higher.
Of course, nobody here would be like the rude husband over the dress... so why are we sometimes so heavy handed with people when it comes to spiritual things? When we speak to others, do we think about how we might receive those comments if they were made to us?
In a “word to the wise”, Paul, in Ephesians 4 talks about the way we should interact with one another and the spirit in which we should do so...
“14 that we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, 15 but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ— 16 from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love.”
I found this discussion on how to approach spiritual conversations fascinating!
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