The problem is that you are attempting to judge Islam as a religion by imposing Christian doctrines on Islamic theology. This is a problem because, for all their shared Abrahamic attributes, the two are founded on differing assumptions. Also, seem to have have little knowledge about the Quran and Muhammad (peace be upon him), you're simply making assumptions based on what you've been told.
So never think that, you're an individual and I'll treat you as such. Same with racial issues.