Isn't this the case with all marriages?
Lol jk
I think men need to stop thinking with their sausages and women need to stop being so high maintenance about what they expect from a husband.
In general, I've come to realise women want a man who is financially healthy, well-built, has a great job (doctor and lawyer being the most favourable) their own place, their own car, dresses well, has a great relationship with their family, comes from a stable background, educated...etc. The truth is you will never get these unrealistic qualities in the same guy and it's important women realise that.
Many of my friends are hitting 30 soon and they're single because their criteria was just too high and they struggled to find a man. They're only starting to realise all this now...
Its not about finding a partner to suit your life and needs but it's about finding someone to build a life with together. You don't just arrive at marriage both complete as individuals, it's a conscious effort to combine pretty much everything you have and try to start your own base.
Also Commonalities are all well and cool but we're just not frank enough with our partners prior to marriage and then all these small issues prop up later on. Some couples don't discuss whether they want kids, or how they believe the dynamics of house should be.
Questions like : How do you believe a child should be raised? Are you comfortable with a working wife? Are never asked and these cause issues later on. My advice to anyone dating right now just stop and think am I actually going to settle down with this person? If not then hate to be so harsh but you're just wasting your time...
Women need to realise that men aren't machines and can't have an incredible job but also be the best house husband. It's all about balance! Men too need to realise women (especially after motherhood) are exhausted and don't have the time to dress themselves up and look pretty. Just accept your woman, flaws and all. She's the mother of your children (or soon to be mother), she takes care of the house, cooks and pretty much mothers you. Men are quite babyish, you will probably have to mother them to an extent but the more you allow them to get away with the harder it'll be. So that dish they 'forgot to wash' at dinner, will turn into more later on so keep them in check girls.
So E, find a god-fearing girl and take the trash outside. These kardashian clones may look great but they'll be the death of you. They'll reel you in with that p.... and leave you out to dry with the washing.