And according to yn rM didnt learn to tie his shoe laces til he was in high school! He said it in front of him and rM didnt deny it so...
There is something suspicious... Dude has a high I.Q but didn't or still doesn't know a lot of basics things. It's not for his defense, but most of the time, it's because of abuse and negligence of the parents. When my parents divorced, and that I was leaving with just my mother who was depressed and horrendous af, didn't do his mother job. At the age of 12, I still didn't know how to tie my shoes correctly. When it was my father who received me the month after, and he had bought me a pair of new shoes with ties, I was so stressed. Because he wanted me trying them in front of him. And he didn't know a lot of things about my bad situation with my mother at that time, because I was already good to hide a lot of things.
He was so furious that I still didn't know something so basic that tying his shoes it was feral. And I was 12. So if the dude didn't learn to do this until high school that's something.
It's like people who doesn't know how to read hours on some watches. By the way, it was the same, I didn't know how to read hours without the numbers until 12 too. My father should work x2 for me to be more adapted to things that people normally learn to you when you are just a child. However, I was already pretty good at reading good in an oral way, I was good at litterature subjects at school. But for the maths it was just a catastrophe. Really. Was very good with what contains imagination, redaction etc..
So if the dude survived with all he still doesn't know, he should really have something in him who saves him.
It wasn't for defend him and maybe he was just a lazy and stupid brat until high school. But the tying shoes remind me so much some situations, and some people gone through it too. Most of the time it's really because there are some parents who just shouldn't be parents and neglect their children.
And if I think this, it's also because when you learn that mafia boss was sold to the industry at 13, the dude was alone and lost with grown people around him all the time, a pedo super tuna monitoring him... I say to myself that the parents of the others members aren't better or more intelligent than mafia boss parents. He said in front of cameras he wasn't at school. How can you do something like this to your own child? *facepalm*
I am thinking too much again sorry for this, but I really know how we feel, when we saw the others children doing all the stuff you didn't know until a certain age, because first you are so sad. Secondly comes the big inner shame and guilt, created by your relatives who are censed to learn basic things to you. Thirdly, you watch like an idiot in secret how they do, because you won't dare to ask for help. You are already aware of the others cruelty so its better to continue to pretend... So you develop low self esteem , and began to think it's your fault and that you merit to be neglected. Even if it's not !
It's one of the reasons, why people can be take a long time, before they decide to learn by themself, or to dare asking someone nice and without any judgements ( rare people but they exist)